I was slightly disappointed the first time I watched this and I asked myself why. I realised it was because the characters had all got older, lost the magic of youth and promise (especially Anna), and yet were still having problems navigating their way throgh life. Just like me! Was it the truth hurting?
I have now watched the series three times on DVD, each time followed by this additional episode. I have always thought this follow-up a complex, clever and interesting piece of writing by series creator Amy Jenkins, and I increasingly think it is psychologically accurate too.
Miles has finally got away from his father and become more confident and relaxed and mature. The marriage with Francesca didn't last - no surprises there. Egg has written a bestseller based on his own life, and was given the motivation to finally write something by his pain at Milly's betrayal. Many people who have gone through a traumatic experience find they have a vivid story to tell - but only one, as Egg finds. Milly's stormy relationship with best friend Anna during her time as O'Donnel's mistress, followed by their friendship reasserting itself, was convincingly reprised in this episode. (Another neat echo of the original series was the use of the documentary film-making of the reunion. This enabled the kind of private confessions from the characters that were such a memorable feature of the original.) Miles and Anna have both sorted themselves out enough to be able to have a truthful relationship and achieve closure. I loved the scene where Warren and Anna plan parental happiness together. ("Turkey-baster?" "Of course!") The more you ponder, the more you see how the developments in the characters' lives are rooted in their pasts.
Of course, we would love to know what happened to Kira and Joe and all the others, but they were never part of the core group, and their presence would have been implausible in a reunion of close friends ten years on.
I think many reviews are being unfair to writer Amy Jenkins. Let's face it, when you meet friends again after a ten year break, it always involves some disillusionment and reappraisal. And you've changed too!