Start reading Think Before You Wink on your Kindle in under a minute. Don't have a Kindle? Get your Kindle here or start reading now with a free Kindle Reading App.
with Kindle Unlimited

Deliver to your Kindle or other device


Try it free

Sample the beginning of this book for free

Deliver to your Kindle or other device

Think Before You Wink

Think Before You Wink [Kindle Edition]

Andy Yawson , Helen Yawson , Matthew Ashimolowo
4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)

Print List Price: £6.21
Kindle Price: £2.61 includes VAT* & free wireless delivery via Amazon Whispernet
You Save: £3.60 (58%)
Kindle Unlimited Read this title for £0.00 and get unlimited access to over 700,000 titles. Learn More
* Unlike print books, digital books are subject to VAT.

Free Kindle Reading App Anybody can read Kindle books—even without a Kindle device—with the FREE Kindle app for smartphones, tablets and computers.

To get the free app, enter your e-mail address or mobile phone number.


Amazon Price New from Used from
Kindle Edition £2.61  
Paperback £5.49  
Kindle Unlimited
Kindle Unlimited
Enjoy unlimited access to over 650,000 titles and thousands of audiobooks on any device for £7.99 a month, including this one. Learn more

Product Description

Product Description

Do you sometimes wonder why so a lot of christians later regret their choice of fiancé, fiancée or even husband and wife?

If you want to ensure that you don’t end up like the majority mentioned above, then you’ve come to the right place.

As seasoned conference speaker and General Speaker of International Central Gospel Church, Dr Mensa Otabil, puts it – ‘If you are single and seeking for a lasting marriage, this is where your journey should begin’.

This book answers most of the pressing questions facing men and women in the choice of a married partner.

In this book, you will find out

• 10 Signs of a Healthy Friendship
• 4 Types of Unhealthy Relationships
• Finding Mr or Miss Right - Your Criteria and Approach
• 25 Questions You Should Be Answering During Courtship
• Ingredients of a Successful Courtship
• 12 Guidelines for Stepping Up From a Broken Relationship
• 13 Popular Myths about Sex
• Truths about God’s View on Sex Every Christian Single Should Know

And many more…

There is also a chapter dedicated to Questions and Answers, where over thirty real questions from singles have been answered in a candid way.

At the end of each chapter is a Study Guide, which will enable courting couples and all aspiring to have a marriage that will honour God to learn in a practical way.

The President and Senior Pastor of Kingsway International Christian Centre Worldwide, Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo, puts it :-

In this book Andy and Helen have left almost no stone unturned in trying to help people going into relationship, to do it right from the beginning. The richness of the content of the book would make it a good guide for intending couples and a practical book on the syllabus of couples fellowships.

About the Author

Andy and Helen Yawson have served under the leadership of Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo for over twenty years. As pastors responsible for KICC Churches in Ghana, they touch many lives through the ministry to their local church – KICC Dominion Centre and the daily broadcasts on a number of radio stations in the country. Andy and Helen are the hosts of the Annual KICC Singles Summit Conference which attracts thousands from various churches in Accra, Ghana and they speak at various events. They are happily married and blessed with two lovely daughters - Anita and Davina.

Product details

  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 197 KB
  • Print Length: 120 pages
  • Publisher: Illumination House Company Ltd (12 Aug 2012)
  • Sold by: Amazon Media EU S.à r.l.
  • Language: English
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
  • X-Ray:
  • Word Wise: Not Enabled
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #324,013 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
  •  Would you like to give feedback on images?

Customer Reviews

4 star
2 star
1 star
4.3 out of 5 stars
4.3 out of 5 stars
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars A somewhat helpful read 22 Aug 2014
By Azaliah
Format:Paperback|Verified Purchase
It was an easy read. So that's always welcome. I however found that it is not a book for all cultural audiences. Some issues were clearly related to a particular few cultural norms or environments. I don't think people from all continents would relate to some of the issues raised in the book or the approaches taken; likewise, perhaps there are some other fundamental areas that would be found to be lacking by a different audience. This is just my opinion though. I found it is for audiences from heavier patriarchal societies.

It is by no means unhelpful. It was a helpful read. Especially if you're looking for some advice for the out-of-the-ordinary (at least from my viewpoint) situations/circumstances.
Comment | 
Was this review helpful to you?
5.0 out of 5 stars Very practical and easy to read. A must have. 22 Aug 2012
I loved this book! It provides the perfect balance of the author's wise words and supporting quotes from the bible. It also provides small spaces for the reader (or church groups etc.) to reflect on their own experiences to see how it relates to them. It is very practical, extremely well written and very easy to read. I would strongly recommend this book to anyone whether they're single, dating or in a relationship. A must have.
Comment | 
Was this review helpful to you?
5.0 out of 5 stars Very informative 8 Oct 2014
Format:Kindle Edition|Verified Purchase
Would recommend to every single. Very well written and sheds light on a lot of myths! Go get it! Great read!
Comment | 
Was this review helpful to you?
Most Helpful Customer Reviews on (beta) 5.0 out of 5 stars  4 reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars A no-nonsense approach to friendship and courtship 24 Aug 2012
By Temitope Abereoje - Published on
If you're tired of the drama and are ready to start handling your relationships God's way, this book is a must-read. The journey begins with you - do you have a vision for your life? How's your self-esteem? Are you able to maintain healthy friendships with the opposite sex without any strings attached? This book takes you through the steps to building a solid foundation that can support a relationship that could eventually lead to marriage. Myths about broken courtship and sex are also debunked and guidelines are provided to getting back up from a broken relationship. While this book asks difficult and thought-provoking questions, it takes the guesswork out by providing simple and direct answers straight from the source-the bible. It's an easy read and one you can't put down once you start.
5.0 out of 5 stars Well written and relevant to today's singles. 23 Aug 2012
By Audrey - Published on
This book is certainly thought-provoking and has sought to provide a useful and practical guide for any individual looking to enter marriage. It is an eye-opener, honest and frank and delves into crucial issues such as signs of an unhealthy relationship, myths surrounding courtship, sex, to name but a few. Most importantly, it is bible-based so individuals in their quest to find a lifetime partner, do not end up compromising their faith and values.
The questions and exercises at the end of each chapter also offer a very useful tool for self-assessment and group discussions.
In today's society with so much pressure to get married by a certain age, it is a must-read to avoid common mistakes and wrong decisions which can have far reaching and devastating consequences.
I found several aspects of the guidelines also relevant to married couples.
I highly recommend it.
5.0 out of 5 stars An easy read with examples you can relate to. 16 Aug 2012
By Jacqueline - Published on
A great and insightful book based on biblical truths with relevant practical information on effective relationship building. A must read for all singles desiring to develop a godly relationship with the opposite sex with the view to preparing for a successful marriage.
5.0 out of 5 stars No stones unturned! A Must Read!!! 31 July 2012
By MissPicky! - Published on
This book is serious stuff. I love the fact that it truly goes into the details that authors tend to shy away from and brings a true and biblical answer to those questions that only too often lurk at the back of our minds, as singles. I recommend it if you are serious about having a relationship that is godly and can stand the test of time. I am getting copies for a few friends!
Were these reviews helpful?   Let us know
Search Customer Reviews
Only search this product's reviews

Customer Discussions

This product's forum
Discussion Replies Latest Post
No discussions yet

Ask questions, Share opinions, Gain insight
Start a new discussion
First post:
Prompts for sign-in

Search Customer Discussions
Search all Amazon discussions

Look for similar items by category