David Deida has an unusual philosophy about people: men and women are different. His view is that most of us have lost passion and true connection with the other gender because we don't live as our most gendered self. If you have a feminine energy, you will be most satisfied by a person who brings their full masculine self and treats you as a wonder of femininity, and vice versa. It's radical, but he breaks his theories down in digestible bits and clear, direct language. Ultimately, this is a book that will appeal more to men than women because of that direct language, but if you are a woman trying to understand and shake up her man, this book will make sense to you.