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The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire [Kindle Edition]

David Deida
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The Ultimate Spiritual Guide for Men

What is your true purpose in life? What do women really want? What makes a good lover? If you're a man reading this, you've undoubtedly asked yourself these questions-but you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now.

In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men's lives-from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality and relationships-to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise.

"It is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart," writes David Deida. "It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine." The Way of the Superior Man presents the ultimate challenge-and reward-for today's man: to discover the 'unity of heart and spine' through the full expression of consciousness and love in the infinite openness of the present moment.



Part One:  A Man's Way
Part Two:  Dealing With Women
Part Three:  Working With Polarity and Energy
Part Four:  What Women Really Want
Part Five:  Your Dark Side
Part Six:  Feminine Attractiveness
Part Seven:  Body Practices
Part Eight:  Men's and Women's Yoga of Intimacy



This book is a guide for a specific kind of newly evolving man.  This man is unabashedly masculine-- he is purposeful, confident, and directed, living his chosen way of life with deep integrity and humor-- and he is sensitive, spontaneous, and spiritually alive, with a heart-commitment to discovering and living his deepest truth.

This newly evolving man is not a scared bully, posturing like some King Kong in charge of the universe.  Nor is he a new age wimp, are spineless, smiley, and starry-eyed.  He has embraced both his inner masculine and feminine, and he no longer holds onto either of them.  He doesn't need to be right all the time, nor does he need to always be safe, cooperative, and sharing, like an androgynous Mr. Nice Guy.  He simply lives from his deepest core, fearlessly living his gifts, feeling through the fleeting moment into the openness of existence, totally committed to magnifying love.


This is David Deida's acclaimed primary sourcebook on masculine spiritual practice. It is a must-read for every man who wants to live a life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Learn how essential it is to know your purpose in the world. Discover the importance of challenge in your life. Understand how your masculine direction gifts your woman as much as her attractive radiance gifts you.

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  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 779 KB
  • Print Length: 218 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 1591792576
  • Sold by: Amazon Media EU S.à r.l.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B004A8ZWM4
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  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (53 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #28,451 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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29 of 31 people found the following review helpful
By Patrick Løye VINE VOICE
David Deida serves up a fascinating take on Masculinity in this work; outlining vital aspects, ideas and practises in a layout that's short, punchy and very much to the point. You don't have to wade through pages of text to gather the information you need out of this one. The book is essentially a colleciton of lessons and ideas, each with a few pages dedicated to their relative explanations. The entire work is unified under the masculine/feminine essence concept that Mr Deida outlines in the opening pages. So it's easy to read and even easier to leap back to for refences and reminders. So for a self-help book/guide - Excellent

The content, however, is a difficult one... The advice is practical, and the perspectives are an interesting alternative to what a lot of people are most likely accustomed to. These perspectives, however, MUST be seen as just that: perspectives. To assume the material is canon is a mistake, verging on potentially dangerous. It's easy to get roped into believing that his ideas are 'truth'... after all, he DOES paint a very convincing picture (and his wording does indeed imply this is 100% factual information).

Now, I know that made no sense, so here's an example:

Chapter 16 says "Women are not Liars", explaining that a woman's word is a reflection on her existing state of mind. In some ways, this is indeed true. I can think of many examples where women's words reflected the emotion more than fact - (When a woman comments how every boyfriend is the 'best bf ever' until he screws up and suddenly is the words biggest schmuck)... but at the same time, I can think of many which go against it. If you open your mind, you can generally find enough evidence to both prove and disprove his ideas.
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31 of 34 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Unique Take on How to Relate 8 Feb 2007
Amazing perspective, difficult to find. I finally read it (so many friends already had and recommended it). I found it highly useful. Does not pander to women like Venus and Mars - much more "down to earth" and male targeted - yet women seem to find it insightful too. You dont usually get this info from your buddies or the women in your life - but once you learn it they can all benefit from what you can share. Take your game to the next level. Very liberating read. I am surprised there are so few reviews - this is a hidden gem - straight forward, easy to absorb and unpretentious!!! Enjoy the book, your relationships and your life purpose man.
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17 of 20 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Excellent advice for men 24 Oct 2006
By Mike
Deida is a great writer on masculine issues. This book covers a range of practical and spiritual topics about what it means to be a man, expecially in relation to your woman.

Short chapters, good sound practical advice and easily accessible language make this a great "Guide to Being a Better Bloke". Some of the language is a bit California psych for my taste, but don't let that put you and learn!
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Thoughtful, careful, and good for women, too! 30 July 2009
David Deida has an unusual philosophy about people: men and women are different. His view is that most of us have lost passion and true connection with the other gender because we don't live as our most gendered self. If you have a feminine energy, you will be most satisfied by a person who brings their full masculine self and treats you as a wonder of femininity, and vice versa. It's radical, but he breaks his theories down in digestible bits and clear, direct language. Ultimately, this is a book that will appeal more to men than women because of that direct language, but if you are a woman trying to understand and shake up her man, this book will make sense to you.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
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This book is very insightful and jam packed with wisdom..I will be reading it again soon to help it all sink it
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A brilliant life guide for all men. 15 Feb 2013
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I highly recommend this to anyone who really wants to master how to deliver best in a relationship, in love and sex, and elsewhere in life in the work and leisure environments. It is an all round guide that gets straight to the point of the true meaning of life and life's events, and of love and God. It is spiritual and practical and delivers real results. An absolutely no-nonsense but real talk book.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Valuable insights 2 Feb 2013
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Nothing should be taken as gospel, and this book has proved insightful and passionate. It opened me to the expression of behaviours that I found frustrating when expressed by others and understanding the reasons for them, and from there a means to demonstrate knowledge of them. It has made my life better for reading it, and it is worth your time as part of a course of study into any aspect of male behaviour, either in theory or in practice.
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Speaks to Every Man 9 Dec 2010
David Deida speks to every man that is here now. The message is clear, the chapters are short...very short and concise...the way he speaks is very spiritual...not in the religion sense...but in the soul and energy sense.

I felt as if the book was written for me personaly.

The prose is very just flows and gets to the core of our centre. he speaks to our hearts and our minds, David has written a very mature book on understanding the dinamics of romantic relationships.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Whether you take the way is down to you!
Every man (and woman), should read this book. You may not agree with all of it, but you need to read it!
Published 4 days ago by David Bosley
5.0 out of 5 stars A book for life.
Every man should read this book. Scratch that every man and woman should read this book. It's also a book to re read through out your life.
Published 22 days ago by J T KELLY
5.0 out of 5 stars life changer
Inspiring. This wisdom taught me things I will use every day to make me in touch with my masculinity. Thank you.
Published 1 month ago by E. Benjamin
5.0 out of 5 stars Every guy needs to get and read this book!
One of the best books I have read thus far.
I treat it like a bible for men and read it every day. Read more
Published 2 months ago by KELVIN KAH FEI WOO
1.0 out of 5 stars The male line is doomed if this is the answer
Dreadful. The odd good point but primarily new age mumbo jumbo. For a book purportedly about how to become a superior man it's more a manual on how to become insipid, irritating,... Read more
Published 2 months ago by StuartM
4.0 out of 5 stars Given as a gift
Arrived promptly in fine condition and as described. The book focuses on the power of the masculine and aims to help the reader in this direction.
Published 3 months ago by Grith Stagaard
5.0 out of 5 stars Best book
It's the best book I ever in my life, if u wanna change your life this is it!!!!! Thank uuu
Published 5 months ago by Salih Yorganci
5.0 out of 5 stars This book is a must
This book is Very important for men and women to better understand eachother for a better life. Go for it!
Published 7 months ago by Joao Carlos Gomes
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book
great book, really puts many things into perspective and think of things in a relationship in a very different way. Read more
Published 8 months ago by Luis Elliott
4.0 out of 5 stars Mostly wise words
If you can get past the woolly, vague first couple of chapters, there's some excellent guidance and insights to be had in the remainder of the book. Read more
Published 8 months ago by breatheandread
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