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A guide to step-parenting - how to overcome the problems and pitfalls and make the most of what can sometimes be a fraught relationship. With a foreword written by Dr Miriam Stoppard.
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In a society where 1 in 4 marriages now end in divorce, the traditional model of the nuclear family unit has radically changed. A startling 1 in 10 families in the UK (the statistics are double this in the US) grow up as part of a step family. Yet this phenomenon is still hopelessly unchartered territory, where the image of the wicked step-mother still presides.
Flora McEvedy could find nothing to help her when she became a step-mother at the age of 28 and the unique passion and energy of this book stems from her experiences. The Step-parents' Parachute will endow the reader with a body of instantly accumulated knowledge. Neatly organised, easy to use, practical and positive, this inspirational book will offer a path through a subject riven with negative assumptions and enable the transformation of the step-family into a happy, rewarding and stable family home.
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40 of 41 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
Firstly I would like to thank Flora McEvedy for her honesty and generosity of spirit. This book will help anyone whose partner has children. I found it when I was desparate. Although I love my partner's children, after 5 years, I was becoming my worst nightmare, a stern, critical, bossy woman ready to erupt at the slightest thing not the warm, empathetic person I aimed to be when I started out. I only wish this book had been available then. The book is very clearly written which it needs to be. It answers the fundamental questions. Who am I in all this? What am I supposed to do? What is my role? How can I contribute in a positive way? How can I help? From my own experience I can say that it is very easy to get lost. It is very easy to get it wrong. This book also helps the biological parent understand all these difficulties. Things are not easy for them either. This book gives you both a strategy. Divorce is a painful business for children and adults. I've come to believe that it is always there for those involved, We can't heal all the scars. This book gives a senstive path through the fall out.
To the author. A second book please focussing on how to meet teenagers' needs
To the author. A second book please focussing on how to meet teenagers' needs
36 of 37 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I have read a number of books on how to improve stepfamily life and each of them have had some positive things to offer, however, none of them have hit all the nails on the head in the way this book has. This book is primarily aimed at those brave souls entering a family as a stepparent, however, I am the natural parent in my stepfamily scenario and I can honestly say that this book has done me the wonderful favour of clearly seeing our situation through everyone's eyes. I now have so much insight into how my children feel and also the emotional rollercoaster my partner is constantly on. This will help me no end! It has given me a deeper appreciation of how complex my childrens' feelings are and how these feelings manifest themselves in their behaviours. It has also given me a renewed admiration and respect for my partner who is trying to make sense of it all. From beginning to end of this book, I time and time again identified with the points the author covered - she could have been writing about us!! This book should be read by everyone already in a stepfamily or thinking about entering one in my opinion!
One last major plus about this book. A lot of the previous books I have read on this subject have been written from an American perspective. I often have trouble identifying with the terminology and over emotional gushiness of American accounts. This book is refreshingly British in its outlook, from the prose to the matter of fact way it deals with the issues, some of which are highly emotional. The author hits just the right note every time.
One last major plus about this book. A lot of the previous books I have read on this subject have been written from an American perspective. I often have trouble identifying with the terminology and over emotional gushiness of American accounts. This book is refreshingly British in its outlook, from the prose to the matter of fact way it deals with the issues, some of which are highly emotional. The author hits just the right note every time.
10 of 11 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I have never picked up a book and been so blown away by how much it portrays my exact feelings and emotions. It was as if the author had known me personally. I have not yet finished the book because I find that it its so intensely powerful that I have to take it like medicine, in small doses. While it does expose the darkest emotions of a step parent, jealousy, resentment, guilt etc etc, it also offers simple and easy to follow advice and really makes you look intently at your own behaviour (where usually we would spend our time scrutinising the step kids behaviour!)
I love the realness of this book, its so down to earth. Recognising your own emotions and reactions is never easy. It forces you to look at areas of your personality that you would rather ignore but this book allows you to realise that without confronting these issues you will not maintain a healthy step family. It is also reassuring to see all types of step families across the spectrum included in this book, including custodial step families, non custodial, step parents who arent bio parents themselves, etc. Everyone is included here. I have read some books that are very stereotypical and stick to what society percieves to be the norm- stepmother, father and stepchildren who visit at the weekends. While this dynamic is common I believe we are in an ever changing society and step families come in all shapes and sizes. To conclude, this book is a life saver, a comfort when no one else around you seems to understand your situation and what you think,feel and have to go through on a daily basis. I would highly recommend this book to all step parents!
I love the realness of this book, its so down to earth. Recognising your own emotions and reactions is never easy. It forces you to look at areas of your personality that you would rather ignore but this book allows you to realise that without confronting these issues you will not maintain a healthy step family. It is also reassuring to see all types of step families across the spectrum included in this book, including custodial step families, non custodial, step parents who arent bio parents themselves, etc. Everyone is included here. I have read some books that are very stereotypical and stick to what society percieves to be the norm- stepmother, father and stepchildren who visit at the weekends. While this dynamic is common I believe we are in an ever changing society and step families come in all shapes and sizes. To conclude, this book is a life saver, a comfort when no one else around you seems to understand your situation and what you think,feel and have to go through on a daily basis. I would highly recommend this book to all step parents!
Most Recent Customer Reviews
life saver.
i wish i knew about this book at least 8 years ago. After reading the first chapter you can relate to most of the sitution. Great book, read this twice already.
Published 5 months ago by masi
FANTASTIC
What a fantastic book. I've found this so helpful, right from the start of reading it.
So glad that I made this purchase, one of the best books that I now own!
So glad that I made this purchase, one of the best books that I now own!
Published 14 months ago by NJC
A fantastic, well-written book
I bought this book at a particularly low point, when it felt like my relationships with both my partner and his young daughter were really starting to crumble. Read more
Published 19 months ago by Sarah L
Just what we needed
This book made us realise that our experiences were not unique. Lots of helpful ideas too!
Published 20 months ago by Paul c
A must read
I have only read half of this book but this is the book that I've been looking for. I've been reading and crying simultaneously as I am finding my own situation so difficult and... Read more
Published 23 months ago by Phillipa Brookes
Great book, practical, insightful step-parenting advice
Great step-parenting book, with direct, no-nonsense advice written by someone who has experienced step-parenting first hand and survived to tell the tale!
Published on 21 April 2010 by Brandgirl34
Fantastic, insightful, a great help
As a mother with my own daughter plus step-son living permanently at home (ages 7 and 8), I thought I was heartless for not feeling any love for my stepson - but Flora McEvedy... Read more
Published on 16 April 2010 by Christina L. Andlaw
A good read
This is a excellent fast paced easy to read book. Although I don't have the extreme problems noted in the book it is nevertheless good for me and potential step parent to read. Read more
Published on 19 Feb 2010 by G. Cooke
excellent book
This is a really great book on the subject of being a step-parent. McEvedy writes well and her prose style is very accessible. Read more
Published on 21 Oct 2009 by Alexander Williams
Step-Parents Parachute
Fantastic book! I bought it as a 'bioparent' to gain some insight into my husband's situation regarding my 3 kids. Read more
Published on 17 Aug 2009 by S. E. Wynn
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