It took me a while to navigate through the opening, I wasn't entirely sure of the premise. Presumably the title 'spoiled' is designed to entice then Dail Heil readers who will enjoy a book that moans about spoiled kids, but Dr Sigman doesn't mean that kind of spoiled. It's about neglected kids being spoiled to make up for bad parenting, I think. Having said that, once I'd got into it I found a lot of common sense. He'll get hammered for saying mothers belong at home though. I heard him on the radio once explaining how childcare for the under threes is damaging to them. The interviewer pointed out this statement was unfair to hard working parents and he exploded, 'but the purpose of this study is about what's good for children, not sating the guilt of absent parents!' or words to that effect. I like him and I liked this book.