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The Science Of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us [Hardcover]

Sheril Kirshenbaum
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3 Feb 2011

When did humans begin to kiss? Why is kissing integral to some cultures and alien to others? Do good kissers make the best lovers? And is that expensive lip-plumping gloss worth it?

Sheril Kirshenbaum, a marine biologist and science journalist, tackles these questions and more in THE SCIENCE OF KISSING. It's everything you always wanted to know about kissing but either haven't asked, can't find out, or didn't realize you should understand. Sheril's a serious scientist, and the material here is informed by the results of the latest studies and theories, but she's also got an engaging, delightful voice and offers information with a light, humorous touch. Topics range from the kind of kissing men like to do (as distinct from women), to what animals can teach us about the kiss, to whether or not the true art of kissing was lost sometime in the Dark Ages, to what, really, makes us kiss.

Employing an interdisciplinary approach--drawing upon classical history, evolutionary biology, psychology, popular culture, and more--Kirshenbaum's winning book will appeal to romantics and armchair scientists alike.

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  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Grand Central Publishing; 1 edition (3 Feb 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0446559903
  • ISBN-13: 978-0446559904
  • Product Dimensions: 19.7 x 13.5 x 2.4 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 2.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 440,291 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"This was the best science book I've read in a long time, offering a new level of understanding to an innate part of ourselves, and making it seem even more enchanting." "-"Cosmos" magazine""

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From a scientist and journalist working in the tradition of Olivia Judson comes a wonderfully witty and erudite exploration of how and why we kiss.

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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars It could have been such a good book 6 May 2013
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Alas! This book could have been really good as it covered aspects from biology, psychology, evolutionary theory, anthropology etc. But it was awfully padded, and really needs a good editor. "Here on earth, light travels from one point to another so quickly that it's hard to notice it takes any time at all." (p.38)

But let's be fair - most of the rest was good, but really let down by stuff like the above.

A curate's egg of a book.
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26 of 27 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Engaging, Funny, Interesting 4 Jan 2011
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I pre-ordered this book and was very excited when the release date was moved up. I had expected to enjoy it (I've read other works - long and short- by Kirshenbaum and liked them), but did not expect her newest release to be so engaging (I dont personally study this type of stuff, so wasn't sure if it would keep my attention). I'm happy to say that it was GREAT! Overall - I definitely give it 5 stars. The book kept my attention and interest from cover to cover. I learned a lot - and enjoyed the process.

When I sat down to read it after Christmas, I had thought to thumb through 20 or 30 pages, but found myself anxiously turning beyond 50.... 100.... 200... until I was done. Couldn't wait to see what the next page would hold. As I read, I laughed (quoting "The Princess Bride" at the onset is a good way to do that), learned (did you know that humans generally remember their first trip to 1st base better than their first trip to home?), and cringed (eating apples from armpits - trust me. Ick!). The book even touched on "Twilight"-inspired "kissing" behaviors from a scientist's point of view (interesting).

The book was a fun cruise through the history and present status of kissing in different cultures, groups and species - in the context of scientific studies on what kissing does to us, and why me continue to do it.

Great for those of us who like to learn about new topics, from a scientist/historian's point-of-view - but also want a work that is engaging, and not dry. Definite 5 stars!
16 of 18 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Not that much here 20 Feb 2011
By J. Davis - Published on
It gives no pleasure to give this book a bad review; the last book she (co)wrote was very good and I enjoy reading her blog. Nonetheless, I can't recommend buying this book. It was very thin in substance and length. The science of kissing, as the author (I believe it's p.197) herself admits, is still in its infancy. Maybe in 5 years or so there will be more to write about the subject of kissing.
13 of 15 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars BookHounds [...] 12 Jan 2011
By Mary Bookhounds - Published on
Everything you ever wanted to know about kissing but were afraid to ask. It has sections on the history, psychology, physiology and meanings behind that act. This is a fascinating books filled with facts that are formed into a comprehensive and enjoyable book. My favorite section is on the physiology which also covers germs and how your body has learned to react to a kiss. Fans of Mary Roach are truly going to enjoy this one.
4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Come on, give me a kiss! 25 July 2012
By Paul A. Mastin - Published on
On a whim, I picked up The Science of Kissing from the new releases shelf at the library. I thought it would be a fun read, and I wasn't disappointed. Kirshenbaum, a marine biologist and science journalist (and a research scientist at UT-Austin, but I'll try not to hold that against her), decided to delve into the nature and origins of one of my favorite things to do, kissing. Turns out there's not a ton of primary research in that particular field, but she tracked it down, and did some original research of her own.

Why do we kiss? Well, there are a number of possibilities. The origin of kissing could be tied to the practice of mothers pre-chewing their babies' food and depositing it in the babies' mouths (this pertains to humans as well as animals). She reveals her background as an evolutionary biologist when she observes that babies' mouths have evolved to be a perfect receptacle for a nipple. That the system of feeding our young with mother's milk originated by design is completely outside of her worldview. Kissing could be linked to the practice of smelling one another on greeting (again, humans and non-humans). There are definitely chemical triggers and responses when we kiss, determining compatibility and guiding relationships. "Kiss and make up" works for a reason: we trigger chemical reactions in one another.

Many animals kiss or engage in kissing-like behaviors.
Lots of what she writes is speculative. Controlled experiments to observe chemical responses and neurological activity related to kissing inevitably interfere with the act of kissing. The closest she came was exposing subjects to images of kissing and measuring neurological activity. But that didn't seem to lead to many firm conclusions.

Kirshenbaum's goal with The Science of Kissing seems to have been more about entertainment than serious science. That's not meant as a criticism: she is skilled at engaging her reader while distilling good research, in ways that a layman can understand and enjoy. This is a fun read, sure to make you want to put into practice what she writes of. She does conclude with 10 (definitely scientifically based!) tips for kissing. I like the final one best, and I will be sure to mention it to my kissing partner:

Kiss regularly and often. Once you've found someone special, a kiss works to maintain the strong partnership you share by helping to keep passion alive--with plenty of assistance from those hormones and neurotransmitters. Lots of kissing is a telltale sign of a healthy relationship, because the connection fosters a sense of security through companionship--which in turn has been physiologically linked to happiness.
8 of 10 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Marvelous Work on a Happy Topic 6 Jan 2011
By Claudia Dreifus - Published on
Sheril Kirshenbaum, who, with Chris Mooney, brings science to the masses with "The Intersection," blog, has decided to tell us everything about a lovely subject, kissing.

She's a bright and sparkling writer and the book is almost as much fun as the subject. Forget about the chocolates. This is the gift to give to your beloved this Valentine's Day.
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