My eldest son is 11 and has Aspergers Syndrome. He is a lovely boy but can become irrationally angry and violent over the smallest thing. He wants to control this but and his anger just runs away from him and he is overwhelmed by 'the Red Beast'.
We have been trying to get help from CAMS and although he has broken my 5 years old's front tooth (he pushed him off a chair when he touched what he was doing), shut the cat in the door (he didn't see her because he was so angry), slammed a door closed and crushed someone's finger, smacked a child's head into the radiator because he was screeching loudly at Playstation, they say he isn't bad enough to get counselling. This book helped!
In desperation I looked on the internet and this book deals with anger in very simple terms. As suggested in the book we have got him a stress ball (he has thrown it at me), we have got him some poppy paper (I always feel better after a good pop). We have been able to talk about the Red Beast and how is affects school and home. It has opened a door to properly talk about his anger and emotions. He is not alone we all have a Red Beast in us. It can be tamed.
Buy the book and keep reading it together and with the other people in your family. Show it to the SENCO at the school because they could all do with a copy too. Lisa