After reading so many self-help guides and books on marriage, adultery, monogamy, divorce etc, this book was the only one that rammed it home to me. I read it from cover to cover in about 5 hours and by the end I was crying. I could not believe how much of a monster I had been to my husband over the past few years, who is a good, decent, kind, honest and hard working man. The book teaches you that in order to change aspects of your husband, you first have to change yourself. And if your husband doesn't change - that's because he can't. He is a man after all, and men are not better or worse than their wives, they are just different. So we should learn to accept and even embrace those differences. This is one of the best, most life changing and most marriage changing books I have ever read. And thanks to the advice of the author, my marriage is now stronger and happier than it has ever been before.