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"Not again!" I hear you mutter, "Another Feminist ranting & raving about how downtrodden are women who choose to become wives, who choose to become mothers." Well they are, legally & financially! What price motherhood? Dare we count the cost?
The costs of motherhood are apparent everywhere: college-educated women pay a "mommy tax" in lost income when they have a child; family law deprives mothers of financial equality within marriage; childcare & elder care(essentially female fields of work) are not figured into the GNP; at-home mothers are not counted in the labor force & social security simple ignores mothers & housewives - at best offering them half of their husbands' pensions in old age.
With chapters entitled: The Invention of the Unproductive Housewife; The Mommy Tax; The Dark Little Secret of Family Life; What Is A Wife Worth?; Who Really Owns the Family Wage?; Who Pays for the Kids?; The Welfare State Versus a Caring State; The Toughest Job You'll Ever Love; An Accident Waiting to Happen & It Was Her Choice, Ann Crittenden takes us through the maze of innuendo, law, history & prejudice that plague women who become full time wives & mothers & casts them as economic untouchables.
A very good read & one I hope everyone contemplating marriage & parenthood would read to see how they, in their private relationship, can balance the books so that both partners & parents are of equal value, to themselves & their society. Do check out my eInterview with Ann Crittenden - an interviewer's dream: she takes the questions & runs! I think you'll like it!
I especially enjoyed the author's analysis of countries like Sweden and France and how they have handled issues surrounding parenting and work. The most interesting factor was the description from the member of Sweden's "Father Commission" as to why Sweden adopted such liberal and finanically supportive policy for parents. It seems that at the time of widesweeping legislation offering financial support to new parents, Sweden was undergoing a shortage of labor. Rather than relying on the importation of labor, Sweden realized its greatest resource were Swedish women who faced obstacles to working when their children were young - unreliable child care, no guaranteed job when they returned to work, lack of flex time, etc. Sweden's government decided to remove the obstacles, jack up financial support, offer great child care, and put in place crucial legislation encouraging parents (read "men and women") to spend time with their kids. Result: happier women, men who know what its like to be a parent and get support at work for doing it, and happy babies living in a profitable economy. Go Sweden!
If there are any drawbacks to The Price of Motherhood, it's that Crittenden has spent so much time with the topic (both researching it and personally experiencing it) that her bitterness occasionally seeps through in prose. I think her arguments might have been stronger in some instances if she had managed to root out the sarcasm or the repeated "It's not fair...". But she's right. It isn't fair. Read the book before voting!