The basic premise behind this book is that a deadly combination of a patriarchal society and misguided parenting does a pretty thorough job of crippling the person we might have been. The search to find those missing or stillborn parts of ourselves can be started at any time but typically begins at a time of crisis, often in mid-life. This book is about that search and how reconnecting with our personal identity can be a lonely and isolating journey fraught with difficulty but one that, with luck, leads to renewal and freedom.
It is specifically written from a feminine perspective, since it mirrors the author's own journey and although men will find much of interest here, they may struggle to grasp aspects that specifically relate to the inner reality of being a woman. There is much talk in the book of the Great(Earth)Mother and getting in touch with the Goddess within but it isn't some New Age feel good stuff she speaks of but a much darker frightening aspect of femininity. In fact, the stifled parts of the feminine which don't want to be defined by pandering to daddys, boyfriends and bosses ideas of how women should be.
If it sounds like a feminist rant against men, well it isn't and she points out that men are equally victims of damaging notions of masculinity and a failure to connect with their own feminine side. However it is a very partisan book, Marion Woodman makes little attempt to take a detached academic stance over the matters she writes about and this is a passionate wake up call to women. Sadly, her call will not be heard by most of them. Since she wrote this in 1985 we've entered an era when too many women's concerns revolve around their bust size and those who would benefit most in freeing themselves from introjected ideas of femininity will never read this book in a million years.
My only reservation about the book is that it's good at identifying the problem but vague at offering solutions. It couldn't be otherwise because everyone's journey is unique and what is right for one won't be for another. However, many people will read it and say 'Yep, that's me but what do I do next?'
I've written this review because it's a superb book and there are no UK reviews but I'm a bloke. Come on ladies, you're the ones who can really say if this book hits the spot.