The Opposite of Love (Thorndike Basic) [Large Print] [Hardcover]

I picked this up despite the schmooshy title as it was about someone the same age as me, in a city i like reading about. I hoped it would be an ok book to pass the time, but it was a lot better than I expected.

Her struggles at work and even bigger struggle with her deteriorating grandfather were well written and entirely convincing, even if the ending was a wee bit predictable.

I thought this book was really good,its not exactly a gripping book but its something that I think everyone can relate to at some point in their lives.nicely written and it almost helps you if you are confused about life.it came along at the right time for me and I'll keep and read again if and when I need to as it really did pick me up.

The Opposite of Love does begin fairly slowly. I mean the Prologue does pull you in, and the first line of Chapter One does even more so: "Last night I dreamt that I chopped Andrew up into a hundred little pieces, like a Benihana chef, and ate them, one by one. He tasted like chicken." I mean, come on, that's a fairly intriguing start, no? But after that the book seems to slow down, mostly due to the fact that it's so hard to get to grips with Emily because she seems so detached, despite the fact the book is written entirely from her point of view. It's clear from the off that Emily has problems; who dumps their boyfriend of two years just because he's going to propose? Exactly. Despite my cold feelings towards Emily, I did persevere as I liked the story but it was the developing plot featuring Emily and her Grandpa Jack that really kept me reading.

I don't know how it happened or what page it happened, but I suddenly found myself feeling different toward the book. Emily didn't change, not drastically anyway, but I began to understand her more, and suddenly I saw the book in a whole new light. It wasn't too far in, either, and all of a sudden I was hooked and I could barely stop reading. There are many plot strands to the book, Emily's work life is a big focus but it's mainly about Emily's inability to have a proper, adult relationship. It seems the only man Emily is able to have a relationship of any sort with is her Grandpa Jack; she doesn't even have a real relationship with her own father. It was interesting to get to the bottom of why Emily was so bad with the men in her life, excepting Grandpa Jack, and to see if Emily could ever overcome the reasons why.

Despite the cold-fish vibe I got from Emily at the beginning of the book I did manage to like her eventually. She is definitely a `Marmite' kind of character and either you'll end up loving her or hating her. Thankfully I fall in the former category and Buxbaum manages to write Emily in such a way that I was able to love Emily eventually. Guess who my absolute favourite character was though? Yes, that's right, folks, Grandpa Jack stole the book. He seemed to be the only presence in Emily's life that was able to thaw her out a bit and the interaction between the two of them was so beautifully written and I kind of wished Jack was my Grandpa, too. The synopsis alludes to something being wrong with Jack and I was hoping and praying it wouldn't be anything too serious. Not that I'm going to tell you either way. Because Emily breaks up with Andrew, we don't see too much of him, but what I could tell about him was that he was, undoubtedly, the best thing to happen to Emily and it was a shame he wasn't around more. Those three make up the backbone of the book but we also have Emily's father who didn't appear to be very good at being a father, as well as Emily's friends and Jack's lovely neighbour Ruth. It was a good set of characters, no doubt about that.

I will admit that the book made me cry. I knew right from the off something sad was going to happen and although I was prepared for it, it still made me cry. It was such a sad ending to the book and yet, there was still hope of some kind there. The book ended really well, sometimes a book just peters out with no explanations or anything but not The Opposite of Love. It had a very strong ending and I didn't feel disappointed about it at all (which is such a rare feat). But what really sets apart The Opposite of Love is the fact it isn't your run of the mill chick lit. Yes, Emily needs to `find herself', something that only the American's could do, but it doesn't come across as false or stupid but it truly seemed that that was what Emily needed to do. There's no ditzy best friend, or stupid love triangle, it's a straight forward story of a woman trying to figure out her place in life and sort through some serious issues. I hugely recommend the book and futhermore I recommend you persevere if you find yourself struggling to like Emily, because she turns out good in the end!