The O of Home is an amazing and important book--a must-read for anyone concerned about the future of humans and of this planet. What, indeed, IS home? As one couple the author spoke to described it, "It's about the energy and moments the place soaks up and radiates out, that determines whether we feel comfortable inside it." And another insight, offered by Jeannette Winterson: "I believe that ... gradually if you have one safe calm space, the bigger space around you becomes safe and calm too."
These issues are not just for those involved in political decision-making and future planning in regard to shelter. All of us are affected, in ways we may not envision, by the limits and expansiveness of what other people call "home"--and by the ways we enable and thwart each other in our attempts to find it.
There are so many dimensions to Jennifer Kavanagh's carefully researched and heartfelt study of "home," its meaning for humans, and the implications for the body and soul of homelessness--not having a place or "one single thing that you call your own." A warning to readers: the collective pain experienced in the stories of losses, in Kavanagh's interviews of the homeless, of visiting the displaced, and of considering the deprived people on our planet (especially in chapter 9, Broken Circles Displacement) is palpable.
In eleven generous chapters, ending with "The O of Completeness Coming Home," Kavanagh branches out from basics, weaning us from our usual understanding of the meaning of "to live." Perhaps, as one couple remarks, "Home is a place and a series of relationships." And, for instance, why do we say that we "live" only with family--and not during working hours apart as well? How can some people live in the same geographical locations but experience different "worlds"--varying levels of safety and contentedness--in them? Could an early, underlying sense of "home" deter some young people from criminal offenses in adult life?
Through it all, Kavanagh asks the underlying and most important question: What will we do about all this? "Acquisition is fulfilling but addictive; our yearning is without end. Can we bring back that infinite yearning, from its material expression to its proper spiritual dimension?" p. 161
The O of Home is an essential read in our beginning to learn how to answer that question, both individually and collectively.
UPDATE I received from the author: "The O of Home is to be reissued in April 2012 with the title Journey Home, to tie in with a board game I have originated."
Look for it!
http://www.amazon.com/Journey-Home-exploration-inner-identity/dp/1780991517/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1325767071&sr=8-1