The Mistress Manual and over one million other books are available for Amazon Kindle . Learn more

Buy New

or
Sign in to turn on 1-Click ordering.
or
Amazon Prime free trial required. Sign up when you check out. Learn more
Buy Used
Used - Good See details
Price: £6.13
Fulfilled by Amazon

or
Sign in to turn on 1-Click ordering.
 
   
More Buying Choices
Have one to sell? Sell yours here
or
Get a £1.20 Amazon.co.uk Gift Card
The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance (Erotic)
 
 
Share your own customer images
Publisher: learn how customers can search inside this book.
Start reading The Mistress Manual on your Kindle in under a minute.

Don't have a Kindle? Get your Kindle here, or download a FREE Kindle Reading App.

The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance (Erotic) [Paperback]

Lorelei (Author)
4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
RRP: £13.99
Price: £9.79 & this item Delivered FREE in the UK with Super Saver Delivery. See details and conditions
You Save: £4.20 (30%)
o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o
In stock.
Dispatched from and sold by Amazon.co.uk. Gift-wrap available.
Want guaranteed delivery by Saturday, June 2? Choose Express delivery at checkout. See Details

Formats

 Amazon Price New from Used from
Kindle Edition £8.31   -- --
Paperback £9.79   -- --
Trade In this Item for up to £1.20
Get an extra £5 when you trade in books worth £10 or more until June 30, 2012. Trade in The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance (Erotic) for an Amazon.co.uk gift card of up to £1.20, which you can then spend on millions of items across the site. Trade-in values may vary (terms apply). Find more products eligible for trade-in.

Frequently Bought Together

The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance (Erotic) + The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners + SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
Price For All Three: £29.82

Show availability and delivery details

Buy the selected items together

Product details

  • Paperback: 171 pages
  • Publisher: Greenery Press; New edition edition (11 Jan 2001)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 1890159190
  • ISBN-13: 978-1890159191
  • Product Dimensions: 23.2 x 15.3 x 1 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 119,626 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

    •  Would you like to update product info or give feedback on images?

More About the Author

Mistress Lorelei
Discover books, learn about writers, and more.

› Visit Amazon's Mistress Lorelei Page

Tags Customers Associate with This Product

 (What's this?)
Click on a tag to find related items, discussions, and people.
 
(3)
(2)
(2)
(1)
(1)
Agree with these tags?
See all 6 tags...

Your tags: Add your first tag
 
See most popular tags

What Other Items Do Customers Buy After Viewing This Item?

› Explore similar items

Customer Reviews

Most Helpful Customer Reviews
103 of 104 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I don't usually gravitate towards the dominance side of bdsm but I did have a lover at one time who wished to explore his own submissive nature. This book is an excellent education for any woman or man, for that matter, who is interested in experiencing female dominance. This is not a simple overview of female dominance or bdsm techniques but a true manual that takes you through the evolution of becoming a Mistress and the enacting of fantasy with your male partner. If you are new to the concept of female dominance this is an excellent book to guide you through the pleasure and pain of being the ultimate Nursemaid, Governess, Queen, Amazon, or Goddess. The book is broken into three main sections: Becoming a Mistress, The Mistress in Action, and The Five Archetypal Fantasies.

Becoming a Mistress brings light to idea of female dominance and the pleasure that can come from command while also discussing the psychological aspects of dominance and finding a partner to explore your fantasies. I enjoyed this section immensely since so many factors concerning personal guilt and relationships are addressed in regards to female dominance. If you're new to the sensual art of dominance you will gather a great deal of self-awareness and understanding in this section concerning bdsm and female dominance

The Mistress in Action begins the real sexual play of dominance between you and your male partner. From the language of dominance to the ties that bind you'll learn some basics that you can expand on with additional reading. This is an excellent book for the novice domme. Once you and our submissive discover specific items that are enjoyable I highly recommend SM101 by Jay Wiseman to explore more techniques and in-depth understanding of BDSM.

The Five Archetypal Fantasies are The Nursemaid, The Governess, The Queen, The Amazon, and the Goddess. Each archetype is outlined from elements of the fantasy, skills needed in the fantasy, enacting the perfect scenario, and variations of each fantasy. If you're unsure how to begin this section will eliminate all doubts. This is a step by step how to from what you should be thinking to create the fantasy to what to wear.

Another great part of this book is that conflict between fantasy choice between you and your submissive is discussed and addressed thoroughly so that everybody wins so you can move on to the sensual art of female dominance. As I mentioned I don't gravitate to dominance but if I ever needed to help someone fulfill their fantasy to be dominated by a Nursemaid, Governess, Queen, Amazon, or Goddess I know exactly how to take control now that I've read The Mistress Manual.

girldiver:)

Comment | 
Was this review helpful to you?
36 of 36 people found the following review helpful
An excellent start 7 May 2001
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
Having fantasised about having a girlfriend properly understand what pleasures a mistress/ sub relationship holds it was refeshing to find a book that sums it up so neatly. I tentatively bought it for a new girlfriend and, taking heart from what I read (the style and content are wonderfully well written) gave it to her. Once over the initial surprise we read it together and now have some fantastic mistress/ slave scenarios. She testify's to the books persuasive nature and loves the in-depth descriptions of different scenes. My bottom testifies to that!
Comment | 
Was this review helpful to you?
30 of 30 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
This book is only useful if you happen to have a partner who fits the stereotyped male submissive that Lorelei has based 99% of her book on. She appears to base most of her assumptions off of those who pay for Mistress services or vague anecdotes that she doesn't back up with any kind of reference. My partner does not desire to be turned into a sissy maid, feel at all inclined towards fetishistic transvestism nor does he want to be dressed up as an adult baby. That just about rules out using the Archetype section. We have absolutely no inclination to make up scripts, get outfits and make stage sets to play out little games either, which seems to be the brand of Dominance being peddled here.

There was no real discussion about submissiveness, why men feel submissive (plenty about why they SHOULD be submissive) nor was there particularly practical advice on female dominance. I could have assumed I can be however I want to be without paying for a book to tell me that.

This is a book about role play, fetish psychodrama and fantasy. It's not about Dominance, submission or of any practical use in the relationship sense.

I'm not even going to bother keeping it. I'm sending it back for exchange for something better.
Comment | 
Was this review helpful to you?
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Really, really helpful
I'm a newborn Femdom and this book is really amazing and really helpful. It shows the five archways of fantasies and explain what the male sub wants when he is into it. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Kinky
A good read!
This book has the basics to female dominance, and some good ideas. It also has quite a good paragraph on the 'types' of dominance or rather submissives they are. Read more
Published on 14 May 2010 by elouise
A MUST READ ...
Didnt know what to expect when I finaly got this treasure in my hands..
Brillant!!! xx
Published on 13 Feb 2010 by J. Jones
The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance (Erotic)...
Bought as a Xmas gift for a woman, she said was she read so far made interesting reading.
Published on 12 Jan 2010 by Mr. M. C. Ogden
excellent for stimulating the mind
I read the majority of this book with a wicked smile on my face.

Not really dealing the Leather aspects of a D/S BDSM relationship, I did find it somehow lacking a little... Read more

Published on 18 Sep 2002
A useful guide for beginners in the fem dom scene.
Interesting and useful. The book is split into sections, some of which you may belive are irrelevant to you. This would be a mistake. Read more
Published on 17 Mar 2002
a great beginners guide to domination
Generally i found the book lacking in new ideas. Although i personally am pretty new to the s+m scene i expected to read about issues and ideas that i had not yet experienced. Read more
Published on 15 Feb 2002
Ladies, buy it...and train your man...
He wants it, he really does...he wants you take control, and Mistress Lorelei will help you do it. This book identifies the different types of Domme/sub relationship and gives... Read more
Published on 21 Nov 2001
Excellent introduction to fun and games at home
Mistress Lorelei skillfully guides the reader through the many pitfalls of Female Domination. The advice is based on the majority of peoples real situations, and does not dwell on... Read more
Published on 20 Dec 2000 by dm@squirrell.force9.co.uk
Search Customer Reviews
Only search this product's reviews

Customer Discussions

This product's forum
Discussion Replies Latest Post
No discussions yet

Ask questions, Share opinions, Gain insight
Start a new discussion
Topic:
First post:
Prompts for sign-in
 


Active discussions in related forums
Search Customer Discussions
Search all Amazon discussions
   
Related forums

Listmania!

Create a Listmania! list

Look for similar items by category

Look for similar items by subject
















i.e., each product must be in subject 1 AND subject 2 AND ...

Feedback


Amazon.co.uk Privacy Statement Amazon.co.uk Delivery Information Amazon.co.uk Returns & Exchanges