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Every day and every hour, one should practise mindfulness. That's easy to say, but to carry it out in practice is not. That's why I suggest to those who come to the meditation sessions that each person should try hard to reserve one day out of the week to devote entirely to the practice of mindfulness. In principle, of course every day should be your day, and every hour your hour. But the fact is that very few of us have reached such a point. We have the impressions that our family, place of work, and society rob us of all our time. So I urge that everyone set aside one day each week. Saturday, perhaps.
If it is Saturday, then Saturday must be entirely your day, a day during which you are the master. Then Saturday will be the lever that will lift you to the habit of practicing mindfulness. Every worker in a peace or service community, no matter how urgent its work, has the right to such a day, for without it we will lose ourselves quickly in a life full of worry and action, and our responses will become increasingly useless. Whatever the day chosen, it can be considered a day of mindfulness.
To set up a day of mindfulness, figure out a way to remind yourself at the moment
of waking that this day is your day of mindfulness. You might hang something on the ceiling or on the wall, a paper with the word `mindfulness' or a pine branch - anything that will suggest to you as you open your eyes that today is your day of mindfulness. Today is your day. Remembering that, perhaps you can feel a smile which affirms that you are in complete mindfulness, a smile that nourishes that perfect mindfulness.
While still lying in bed, begin slowly to follow your breath - slow, long, and conscious breaths. Then slowly rise from bed (instead of turning out all at once as usual), nourishing mindfulness by every motion. Once up, brush your teeth, wash your face, and do all your morning activities in a calm and relaxing way, each movement done in mindfulness. Follow your breath, take hold of it, and don't let your thoughts scatter. Each movement should be done calmly. Measure your steps with quiet, long breaths. Maintain a half smile.
Spend at least a half hour taking a bath. Bathe slowly and mindfully, so that by the
time you have finished, you feel light and refreshed. Afterwards, you might do household work such as washing dishes, dusting and wiping o$ the tables, scrubbing
the kitchen floor, arranging books on their shelves. Whatever the tasks, do them slowly and with ease, in mindfulness. Don't do any task in order to get it over with. Resolve to do each job in a relaxed way, with all your attention. Enjoy and be one with your work. Without this, the day of mindfulness will be of no value at all. The feeling that any task is a nuisance will soon disappear if it is done in mindfulness. Take the example of the Zen Masters. No matter what task or motion they undertake, they do is slowly and evenly, without reluctance.
EXERCISES IN MINDFULNESS
Here are a number of exercises and approaches in meditation which I often have used, adapting them from various methods to "t my own circumstances and preferences. Select the ones you like best and find the most suitable for your own self. The value of each method will vary according to each person's needs. Although these exercises are relatively easy, they form the foundations on which everything else is built.
Half-smile when you first wake up in the morning
Hang a branch, any other sign, or even the world `smile' on the ceiling or wall so that you see it right away when you open your eyes. This sign will serve as your reminder. Use these seconds before you get out of bed to take hold of your breath. Inhale and exhale three breaths gently while maintaining the half smile. Follow your breaths.
Half-smile during your free moments
Anywhere you find yourself sitting or standing, half-smile. Look at a child, a leaf, a painting on the wall, anything which is relatively still, and smile. Inhale and exhale
quietly three times. Maintain the half smile and consider the spot of your attention as your own true nature.
Half-smile while listening to music
Listen to a piece of music for two or three minutes. Pay attention to the words, music, rhythm, and sentiments. Smile while watching your inhalations and exhalations.
Half-smile when irritated
When you realize you're irritated, half-smile at once. Inhale and exhale quietly, maintaining the half smile for three breaths.
Letting go in a lying down position
Lie on your back on a flat surface without the support of mattress or pillow. Keep your two arms loosely by your sides and your two legs slightly apart, stretched out before you. Maintain a half smile. Breathe in and out gently, keeping your attention focused on your breath. Let go of every muscle in your body. Relax each muscle as though it were sinking down through the floor or as though it were as soft and yielding as a piece of silk hanging in the breeze to dry. Let go entirely, keeping your attention only on your breath and half smile. Think of yourself as a cat, completely relaxed before a warm fire, whose muscles yield without resistance to anyone's touch. Continue for 15 breaths.
Letting go in the sitting position
Sit in the half or full lotus, or cross-legged, or your two legs folded beneath you, or even on a chair, your two feet touching the floor. Half smile. Inhale and exhale while maintaining the half smile. Let go.