The Middle Ground is another great novel from Margaret Drabble. I guess the title refers to that period in a person's life when the weight and seeming responsibilities of youth have been seen to be what they are: youthful egocentrism and arrogance. To come to that realization is both a release and a challenge: where do we go from here?
Kate Armstrong has reached thst point in her life. The mother of three children, she feels that men are impossible, and yet: "They (she and her ex lover)would gaze at one another forever, good friends perhaps, old allies, old enemies,across this impossible void...trying new voices, new gestures, making true efforts to hear, to listen, to understand.But hopelessly, hopelessly. Admit defeat....men and women can never be close. They can hardly speak to one another in the same language.But are compelled forever, to try, and therefore even in defeat there is no peace." (P 236).
She looks back on the frustrations of a stultifying upbringing; she copes in the present with the difficulties of her complicated life in London in the 1980's; and when we leave her she's sitting on her bed, wondering what to wear, excitedly anticipating a party to which too many people have been invited, at which things can, and probably will, go wrong.She is bravely facing an unknown future, and this reader, for one, feels emboldened by her example in this wonderful, life-affirming novel.