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The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them [Kindle Edition]

W. Anton
4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)

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Book Description

The Manual is the ultimate and only guide to getting girls and to understand women once and for all. This is why guys that read it don't read or recommend anything else. Because the few men who "get it" spend the rest of their lives enjoying sexy girls in abundance – and so can you.

You can learn to get ANY girl you want, the same way that all men who are naturally good with women have. The only difference is that you may learn it much FASTER, instead of wasting tons of time and money on fruitless dates or a new car/haircut/shirt that you BELIEVE will make you more attractive – but really doesn't.

You see; men LACK success with women because they either don't understand what women are attracted to, or because they THINK that they do know, but have the wrong ideas and hence waste a lot of time - sometimes their entire life - chasing things they don't need. You know you have to get this book if you believe women want men with money, cars, or anything else that is manmade, because that doesn't make any sense. If women really were attracted to something unnatural, how did men meet women before any of those things were invented?

The approach you'll learn in The Manual is very different from conventional dating and the advice you find in the mainstream media because it focuses on natural attraction – on what women REALLY want – not what they CLAIM they want or what males in general BELIEVE women want. It incorporate men’s and women’s socialization and explains phenomenas such as why men think women are attracted to things such as money (yet money is a man-made invention that has not even EXISTED very long) and why women “play hard to get” (a well-known phrase which amusingly reveals that women ARE easy but only pretend not to be).

This is why the beginning of the book addresses your basic beliefs and mindset, because if you learn to THINK correctly, you will automatically behave correctly around women. Even if they are so stunning they normally take your breath away, your mind goes blank, and you run out of words.
You already have what it takes to seduce women. Like, if you never run out of words around your close friends or family, you should be able to talk to a hot girl without making a fool out of yourself. The reason you seem to be a different person in such situations is because you ARE – you are NOT being yourself! You act differently because you were socialized to sabotage yourself. The Manual teaches you how to unlock your true potential and to bring out the real you – not change you into someone you are not.

The method presented to get girls works on all women, no matter what language they speak, how young they are, or what type of relationship you might be looking for. It's universal because it's based on natural attraction, what all women are hardwired to respond to, and attraction is an emotion, not a decision.

You can use it to get a sexy girlfriend, one night stands or even long-term relationships. You can use it to find true love, a soul mate, or just casual sex without commitment. And one of its best benefits is that it will make women want to be with you and appreciate you. The girls you get will REMAIN attractive even after you have formed a sexual relationship with them, because they are so happy to be with you. While most other guys who do get (average) girls, often find themselves with an average female who becomes even less attractive over time as she stops taking care of herself completely.

All other dating books simply repeat conventional wisdom that doesn't work very well in reality, and even the best ones are about ACTING like an attractive man, not on how to BECOME one. But the problem is if you go around acting like someone besides yourself, even if you do start getting girls, it's not really YOU who are getting them. The Manual will show you how to get laid like a rock star, without being one, and without pretending to be one either.

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  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 482 KB
  • Print Length: 348 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 1456494554
  • Sold by: Amazon Media EU S.à r.l.
  • Language: English
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #69,223 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars An Absolutely Brilliant Piece of Work 17 Dec. 2012
By Lou
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A short note to say that this book is brilliantly written, and the most valuable book on dating (or a learning curve on personal development) you are likely to find. Thank you Mr Anton for such a great book which was worth every penny..
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A masterpiece of modern writing 1 July 2013
By Phil
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This book is a masterpiece of modern writing. It has been written with the nature of attracting women at its core; but far surpasses its intended target. If you are trying to simply improve your dating with women or remodel your life, this is the book for you.

It will not give you step by step instructions of how to get a girl. But more, the mindset that is necessary to be a man worthy of any woman you want.

In this day in age; political correctness and sexual equality has dulled down mans attitude to take charge of a situation.

Allowing yourself the acceptance to love women should be a naturally inbuilt instinct in all men. If you find yourself blaming women or life's situations for your problems; don't! Its your fault, you need to improve and fear not as help is at hand.

This book is a modern and insightful look at the ways a man should and is expected to act in order to be successful with women.

The manual will give you the confidence to pursue your goals. Whether it's with women, your career or achieving your dreams.

In short, buy this book, become a man, get what you want and be masculine.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A real eye opener 8 Feb. 2015
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This book really blew my mind. Yes it is a bit repetitive, yes it goes to extremes at times and it definitely is a bit shallow when it comes to closing aka sex, but man it hits the bullseye with the basic stuff.

The brutal and blunt statements about the nature of males and females, what it means to be an alpha male, what women really want from a MAN, these things are what we evolved with and you simply can't argue with nature. The book goes into great detail why so many men are conditioned to resist these truths, many are simply unable to accept them.

Now, there is some danger in following the book too literally. You might become an alpha male by-the-book robot with no personality if that is what you want. Or you can take the wisdom as a general guideline and adjust your personality so that your glaring beta male weak spots don't screw your love life anymore. With both paths you WILL bang a lot of hot chicks. You might not get THE girl you want because women are generally crazy and unpredictable. And furthermore if you do get THE girl she might turn out to be far from what you expected (this is also covered in the book) so either way if you accept the teachings you will get to know women way better and your vision of the perfect girl will most likely change several times.

To all the sceptics: I too thought after reading this book that many if not most statements are just way too strong and exaggerated. I was very cautious at first but then I decided to just go for it. I went to an open event with lots of people and picked a few girls I liked (and would generally consider way out of my league). I did my best to be as confident and bold as possible, following all the guidelines from this book. ALL of the girls I talked to instantly responded positively.
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The scope of this book extends way beyond dating. Culture and environment teach us a lot of unexamined ideas as we grow up which are not necessarily TRUTH. This text has the power to challenge your existing belief systems regarding your own desires and what it means to be a man. I'm not going to lie, this is not an easy thing to do as it means challenging your very identity. If you are sceptical about reading this, leave your preconceptions at the door and give it a go, you will NOT regret it. It is also superbly written in a clear and concise style. Big thanks to the author for taking to time to share his wisdom. With this wisdom my understanding of attraction has increased tremendously. The other night I approached a woman and within 3 minutes was heading back to her place for sex. This would have never happened had I not read this. This text is not purely about seduction, though, and if you want to read it just to increase your numbers, you will be in for much more than you bargained for.
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8 of 10 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Opened my eyes.... 17 April 2012
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I was not looking for a book like this, in fact I forget how I found it but I did stumble upon some excerpts and samples.
These intrigued me so I paid the very high purchase price.
I was pleasantly surprised.
The Manual can be read on many levels. No doubt the pick-up artist will find a few new techniques but I did not see it this way.
For me it is more like an adult, and often amusing, version of Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
There is not a gulf of understanding between men and women, it's more like a chasm.
We simply do not think or behave in a similar way and this causes a lot of grief, frustration and wasted time.
We often want the same things but simply do not know how to communicate with each other.
The author(w.anton - most amusing)explains how to bridge this gap...or at least lead the woman over the bridge and into your world.

My only criticism is that he does, towards the end, get a bit clinical when discussing the conclusion, let's call it intimacy, and the last few chapters are getting near to titillation and soft-porn.
However the insights into female psychology are remarkably accurate.
He also correctly notes that men who use so-called high status, material objects like sports cars to impress women are wasting their time and probably gay because the only people who are impressed by these things are other men. By forgetting about becoming high status you can focus on what really counts: just being a man.

Used properly and for noble purpose The Manual will help you win the woman of your dreams and stop you wasting a lot of time.
Some sections are hilarious. How many times have you heard some chap try out a party trick to impress the ladies like 'what's your favourite animal etc'.
W.Anton describes these dating-by-numbers characters as clowns, not men. How right he is!
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4.0 out of 5 stars This is a very exciting and interesting book, just ...
This is a very exciting and interesting book, just read it and you could understand the most of behaviour of women.
Published 2 months ago by Mr Tamas Zoltan Szenasi
5.0 out of 5 stars This is it
The only book you'll ever need on the subject. Forget about techniques, dressing up like someone you are not, etc, etc - get the right mindset and you are up and running. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Mr Pink
5.0 out of 5 stars Change your mindset, change your life.
Awesome book, I couldn't quite believe the many positive reviews on here and really now I understand them all. Read more
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1.0 out of 5 stars A potentially soul destroying book
The cover should have been a sign, but the sample was rather promising. The ideas the author promotes are rather dangerous. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Mihai Badea
1.0 out of 5 stars The Manual: What Women DON'T Want
The author is clearly a misogynist and most, if not all, of these reviews are fake. The worst PUA book I have ever read and definitely overpriced! Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant!!
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Published 9 months ago by Christopher stone
5.0 out of 5 stars If you want to get laid whenever you feel like it - GET THIS BOOK.
I'm telling you: If you want your life to become magical, if you want to be able to approach the most beautiful girl you've seen this week, in the shopping mall, together with her... Read more
Published 10 months ago by Sebastiaan Vaz
5.0 out of 5 stars I love it
A book every man should read!
Published 10 months ago by Mr Benjamin
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant book, gave me the tools to be much happier.
As above this is a brilliant book, Mr. Anton has got the whole mind set of an attractive man down to a t. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Share the LOVE.
1.0 out of 5 stars What a load of tripe
I can only assume that the other reviews have been written by the authors friends or indeed by other Neanderthals. Read more
Published 17 months ago by Ste Fitz
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