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The Man Whisperer: A Gentle, Results-Oriented Approach to Communication [Paperback]

Donna Sozio , Samantha Brett

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29 Dec 2010
For years, "whisperers" have gotten horses, dogs, and babies to behave. Through simple rewards and punishments, they encourage positives and discourage negatives. But why is it so hard to achieve in relationships?

Enter The Man Whisperer. This modern communication guide shows you how to adopt a new style--to get what you want! Authors Donna Sozio and Samantha Brett have men eating out of their hands, and here they share their secrets. This lighthearted guide features tactics to get him to:

  • Text if he's going to be late (yet again!)
  • Put her orgasm first (without expecting "rewards")
  • Say the "L" word (and mean it)
  • Spend quality time (regardless of what game is on)

Whether in the honeymoon phase or seriously committed, this book gives you solutions to thorny problems and balances expert advice with humor and anecdotes to illustrate how to turn any guy into a well-tamed man!

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"'The Man Whisperer' teaches women how to speak to men in a feminine way that men hear, understand, and respond well to." --John Gray, Bestselling author of "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus"

"#1 PICK for 2011 Dating Books" --The San Francisco Chronicle

"The dating-advice duo behind "The Man Whisperer" book promise in their step-by-step guide that getting your guy to follow your every command involves shedding feminism part-time..." --The New York Post

"Leave dominating communication styles at the office, and use a gentler approach at home. That includes letting him feel he's taking care of you, even when you both know you're completely independent."

"The Man Whisperer is the answer to all your relationship woes. And sex woes. And 'Why the hell does he do that?' woes."
--Lisa Daily, bestselling author of Stop Getting Dumped!

About the Author

Donna Sozio has dated dozens of every type, shape, and size of man in the hopes of settling down. She's a dating expert, Shoe-ologist, and regular media personality. Samantha Brett has been writing one of the world's largest dating columns for for Australia's largest newspaper The Sydney Morning Herald, is a regular on the E! Channel's Show THE SEXIEST, and is on television and radio on a weekly basis.

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17 of 19 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Great Intentions, but Too Manipulative 18 Dec 2010
By Alan Roger Currie - Published on
I recently interviewed Samantha Brett, co-author of The Man Whisperer: A Gentle, Results-Oriented Approach to Communication on my talk radio podcast program "Upfront & Straightforward with Alan Roger Currie." I purchased this book to prepare for my interview with Ms. Brett. Samantha and I had a great discussion about the contents and advice offered in her and Donna Sozio's book designed to help women improve their dating relationships with men. After reading the book though, I was frank with Samantha: Much of the advice given to women in "The Man Whisperer" really comes down to a pleasant, subtle, easily acceptable form of manipulation.

I love the fact that Donna and Samantha are letting women know that they don't have to bitch at men, whine constantly, nag men, and/or act like a spoiled brat to get much of what they want out of a man. The goals and objectives that the book spells out for women are solid.

The problem is that most of the advice seems to center on "changing" a man, and motivating him to 'modify' various aspects of his behavior that the average female companion finds irritating or intolerable. My question is, why not just find a GREAT GUY with all of the attributes that you want in a male companion from the get-go? This book should really be renamed, "The Man Whisperer: How to Get a Stubborn Alpha Male to become an Acquiescent Beta Male by using Sex and other Socially Acceptable forms of Manipulation" (Okay, okay ... no publisher would ever go for a sub-title that damn long, but you get my point)

The book is not a 'bad' book at all. I just think the book is disingenuous in what it purports itself to be, which is a book that is NOT about manipulating men. This book is ALL ABOUT manipulating men. In a nutshell, this book is essentially about how to maintain control over a marriage and/or long-term relationship by making your male companion THINK that he is still in control. This book is going to end up preaching to the choir. Most of the women who would be successful in using the suggested tactics are probably already using many of them. And the women haven't used any of the suggested tactics by Brett and Sozio more than likely won't after reading this book. My opinion, anyways.

If nothing else, the book is very entertaining and is anything but boring.
11 of 12 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great stuff here! 16 Nov 2010
By Moira Shepard - Published on
As someone who used to feel like my needs were less important than pleasing my man - and stewing about it until I exploded like a volcano - this book offers a safe and sane way to make sure my man and I both get our needs met.

Donna and Sam make it easy to let go of nagging... to let go of my abject people-pleasing ways ... and give simple steps that are easy to act upon and create great results.

I love how respectful of men this book is - no male-bashing here - just a recognition that men and women are different, and how to navigate and appreciate those differences with ease and grace.

Brava, Donna and Sam!
11 of 12 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Sound advice, softly spoken 16 Nov 2010
By Alina Berdichevsky - Published on
What I love it that this book inspires us to work with men's nature - not deny it or suffer our way against it.

This advice takes me to a simple and elegant time when manners and courtesy superceeded exessive over-sharing and inspires me to be more thoughtful and considered in my communication in general.

I am OK with the fact that we need to speak differently to men - just as we expect them to speak to us in certain, more empathetic terms - and the positive results and harmony this advice warrants is well worth the pause of mind!
9 of 10 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars AMAZING AND INCREDIBLE 28 Nov 2010
By justine pogroske - Published on
I am an avid reader of relationship books, emotional development and psychology books. I go through books like water, and I can definitely say without hesitation that this book should be every girls bible! I thought I KNEW IT ALL! Until reading this book...from a GEN Y perspective where girls are meant to be "equals"to men...I think this book really makes your man feel special, like he is in control...being recently engaged it is really working wonders in my relationship. I am a very strong woman that will normally fight back and not take any sh@#. However, with that comes stress- this book has taught me how to RELAX, CHILL OUT and let your man "FIX IT". It has also taught me to ZIP IT! because not zipping it leads to unnecessary problems. This is a fantastic book, and has taught me that I need to stop acting like the tough "guy" in the relationship! A MUST HAVE FOR ANY GIRL!!!!!!! This will definitely be a number #1 seller! :)
10 of 12 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars A must read for all women! 16 Nov 2010
By Yasser - Published on
I love this book!...As a guy think this book is long overdue. It's fantastic advice for every woman out there.

I really like how it promotes better understanding between the sexes, and especially found the pragmatic approach very helpful.

I will buying a copy of this book for my future wife!
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