2.5 stars. It started off really promising and then the end just completely left me frustrated and incredibly let down. I loved the idea: higher class girl runs off with poor Irish boy - and thus gives up her inheritance and a life of luxury - and they marry. Martin 'marty' has a close family and it was interesting to read how Etta has to adapt to completely new situations (i.e. from emptying her own chamber pot to realizing that she would actually have to make dinner for husband every night; it wouldn't just appear).
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My problem with the book was this: when they meet the hero is BESOTTED by the heroine and desperate to get her, to marry her and get her away from her family. His mother described his actions as being similar to what he did as a little boy: wanting a large cooking apple badly. whilst his mother told him they tasted awful. He badgered her for weeks until she finally shelled out the money and brought it only for him to spit it out as soon as she brought it because it tasted awful. It's heartbreaking because this is what Marty does to Etta. She loves him deeply from when they meet to when the story ends: she gives up her family and tries hard to learn these foreign duties without hardly any help from his mother who derides her airs and graces and not once during what he puts her through does she wish she had chosen her family and a life of comfort over running away from him
They start having babies and when this means sex lessens, so does Marty's love. It is literally that transparent and heartbreaking to read. He also cheats on her. It's sad because for about 1/2 of the book, she is blissfully happy with him and he her and while she continues to be so, he starts to tire of the novelty of having someone like her for a wife. Then ue leaves her one day and never comes home - her and their 4 children, one of whom is a baby - and he doesn't come back for YEARS. Why? Because he joined the army and whilst there got a 'second wife'. It was disgusting. Sheelagh Kelly doesn't write typical romances in any way. 'A Long Way from Heaven' is one of my favourite books by her and it is by no means plain sailing but the hero in that book has integrity. Marty is a fool and Etta too good a character to be wasted on him.
The least Sheelagh Kelly could have done was give the heroine a better story when things change for Marty : him getting away, having an affair and basically just up and leaving his family because he's tired of them. Instead, she basically never really gets through to him - or his family, who are pretty unsympathetic to his frolics - just how much he has betrayed her. The ending is ridiculous, too, and far too rushed.