Of course this handbook is superficially appealing - hedonism, bohemianism, licentiousness all sound like terribly cool things to aspire to. And this book is well-designed and slickly-packaged into a tempting little impulse purchase at the bookshop counter, or as a gift for a friend... But this is Amazon, and we're infored buyers here! A few moments' thought reveal this book to be more a triumph of marketing than real hedonism:
1. Would Casanoa or Oscar Wilde need to buy a book to be told how to find pleasure and how to relax? No! That's much too dictatorial an approach for true hedonis. Pleasure and leisure are about what make *you* happy, and you don't need to be told what you find enjoyable.
2. This book is incredibly poorly written - it's clearly a rush-job for the cash. The opening history section is just a collection of superficial and often-false stereotypes about classical cultures, with Epicureanism entirely misrepresented, the fall of the Roman epire so siplified as to be laughable, and utter untruths about Edwardian ladies and piercings. (Ask a gender historian: they didn't!)
3. You could find most of the quotations that make up much of this book with a few seconds on a search engine. That's the real leisurely way of doing it!
The book's overall message about ours being a pleasure-phobic society, obsessed with work and achievement and losing sight about what really matters in life? Utterly correct. But 'The Hedonism Handbook' is just too fun and flip to make you think deeply enough about how to *really* change your life for the better. Be a real hedonist: spend your money on a bottle of wine, not this book!