The title of this book attracted me to it. I wanted to know how the wife of one of the most famous writers of all time had earned this accolade. Having watched the television dramatisation of 'My Boy Jack' last year and seen nothing so extreme about Carrie's personality, I was eager for more information. And so I learnt about a headstrong, independent woman; one who chose not to conform to the feminine protocols of the day, who appeared fearless in the expression of her views and took a great deal of responsibility for the management of her husband's career as well as raising a family.
Although there is certainly information in the book that suggests that Carrie Kipling was not the most popular character e.g. by failing to keep staff and the expression of the doubts of others about her suitability to marry Rudyard Kipling, I did not finish the book hating her. Letters and diary entries detailing significant events e.g. the loss of her daughter and anxiety regarding her husband's health demonstrated quite convincingly the presence of a heart. The fact that she continued managing her husband's career through these life-changing events shows great courage and strength, as far as I am concerned, rather than a foundation for hatred.
This said, I would highly recommend this book - a very interesting over view of a life amongst other exciting talents of the time, including Henry James and most importantly, an opportunity to draw your own conclusions about a woman who I think perhaps, was ahead of her time.