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The Guide for Separated Parents: Putting Children First [Paperback]

Karen Woodall , Nick Woodall
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  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Piatkus (3 Sep 2009)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 074994000X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0749940003
  • Product Dimensions: 19.6 x 12.4 x 2 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 16,122 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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...quite simply, the best book on separation that we have ever read. Both the authors work at the Centre for Separated Families and have a wealth of experience with this client group. In this clever book - and its associated 'Parenting Plan s' booklet - they guide both mothers and fathers (they have a real understanding of the needs and experiences of both sexes) through the emotional and practical journey of separation and its aftermath. Their explicit aim is to help parents 'put their children first', but the authors know this cannot be achieved until both father and mother can manage and understand their own feelings. Sensitive, practical, beautifully written, we believe this book should be REQUIRED READING for all professionals working in this field; and should always be offered to separating and separated mothers and fathers (Fatherhood Institute )

The book is clearly set out and the chapters logically and thoroughly explore all the issues that might arise before reaching a conclusion with sound advice on each topic (Parenting Without Tears )

When the authors of a book have been through the scenario and actually run a centre for Separated Families, you know you can trust the content and benefit from the knowledge shared. With family separations being part of today's society, it is important that the children's lives are affected only in a positive way and this can be achieved. It does, however, take a lot of hard work and this is where the book becomes an invaluable tool in the whole process. There could be a tendency to preach but the book focuses on the positive aspects of working together and show light at the end of what can seem a very long tunnel. If you are in this situation, it is great to read this book and know that a happy medium can be reached (From Bump to Grump )

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So many people who are attempting to cope with family separation need help. The Centre for Separated Families offers a wide ranging, imaginative series of programmes, run by people with just the right level of expertise. (Professor Judy Dunn, Institute of Psychiatry, London )

Putting Children First: a handbook for separated parents by Karen and Nick Woodall (Piatkus Books, 2007) is, quite simply, the best book on separation that we have ever read. Both the authors work at the Centre for Separated Families and have a wealth of (Fatherhood Institute )

The book is clearly set out and the chapters logically and thoroughly explore all the issues that might arise before reaching a conclusion with sound advice on each topic (Parenting Without Tears )

When the authors of a book have been through the scenario and actually run a centre for Separated Families, you know you can trust the content and benefit from the knowledge shared. With family separations being part of today's society, it is important t (From Bump to Grump ) --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

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25 of 25 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I have just finished reading this book and wish I had been able to read it two years ago when I was going through a nasty divorce. My children suffered horribly all through the process because I was an emotional wreck and was obsessed with getting my own back on their dad. Two years on and I can look back and see what I did wrong - if I had had this book then I would have known that what I was feeling was normal but that I didn't need to react as I did. Their dad was to blame for the end of our relationship not them and he did want to keep seeing them and spending time with them but I couldn't let them as I was so angry. Now they see him rarely and I know that they miss him. If you are going through divorce, read this and get your ex to read it. Children don't deserve to be caught up in their parents mess.
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Format:Paperback
I am forty seven and recently got divorced from my wife of 23 years by mutual consent. We were really worried about how this would affect our kids so we bought as many books as possible on the subject and read them from cover to cover. I am relieved to find that what we thought we were doing right was actually right! We always wanted to provide the kids with a new way of life that included both of us and our kids go from my home to thier mom's and back several times a week to suit themselves. We live close by so its easy for them to do that but I thought they might think we were weird or wonder why we split up in the first place it was so easy. This book made me realise that we are very lucky in being able to still respect each other and our children and that so many other people don't get to this place very easily. Putting Children First gave me lots of new ideas too, for things to do with the kids and for ways of working out what to do in the future if one of us meets another person, which is bound to happen sooner or later. Anyway just wanted to say that not everyone finds it impossible but even those who find it easy need reassurance that they are getting it right and this book does just that in a very straightforward way. Its got something for everyone and I recommend it highly.
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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful
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I have just split up from my partner and she has got my two daughters living with her. We have argued and argued. This book has helped me to negotiate with her and I now see my girls more often and they are happier. I was gutted when my relationship split up but the book also has lots of advice for dealing with that. The book is written in a clear, direct way that is easy to follow.It explains things from a child's point of view and shows you ways to improve communication. I recommend it!
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
Good read for those going through a seperation
I found this book really helpful and not just with the children in mind, it also helped with emotions/feeling the parents go through. Read more
Published 7 months ago by pamelah
nice book
nice book easy to read good advice - nothing too complicating i bought it not as a parent but as a grand parent whose son is going through a difficult separation and it helped me
Published 10 months ago by em
Read alongside FAMILY COURT HELL.
A good book I found, but also read Family Court HELL as that book goes inside the UK's worst ever child access case-if that does n't stop a parent wanting to obstruct their child's... Read more
Published 11 months ago by plymouth dad.
Too extreme
Some parents have difficulties considering children at all during the process of divorce and become self centered, this book proposes to parent to forget about themselves and live... Read more
Published 14 months ago by M. Bongrand
Its good guide for parents about to seperate...not for others
My husband and I have already divorced and so when I bought this book I was looking for a guide on what to do next...how to move forward. Read more
Published 19 months ago by Mehreen
Great book If read!!!
This book deals with most of the issues surrounding a couples break and how to put the child/children first. Read more
Published 20 months ago by Helpfulbob
Best book for separating parents
I work professionally with families and children. This is, in my opinion, the best book for separating parents that is on the market. Read more
Published on 21 April 2010 by Duncan Fisher
An Excellent Book - with practical advice.
I purchased this book for my partner, he has read it from cover to cover, as have I. We then purchased another copy for have his parents. Read more
Published on 9 April 2010 by Ms. Julie A. Kingston
Working my way through it
Well, there is quite a lot in this book that is relevant I think so I am going to keep going with it.
Published on 16 April 2009 by Juliette S. Crane
Good book to give to your kids dad!
Easy to read, deals with all of the difficult bits about bringing up kids after divorce. Gives straightforward advice and ideas to sort out the things that cause hassle between... Read more
Published on 26 July 2007 by Angela Duncan
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