This extraordinarily honest and beautifully expressed memoir is an incredibly gripping read. This is Mr Glanville's first book and he shows himself to have a unique and gripping voice. He takes the reader through a real roller coaster of emotions on his journey of self discovery. This reader literally had tears rolling down her face at the hysterical sections concerning the authors family and sex lives! There are also some real eye openers about life at Oxford Uni, and on the operatic stage. Prepare to have all preconceptions shattered! As somebody who instantly falls asleep at the mention of Football, I was amazed by how gipping these sections were.The descriptions of life as 'hooligan' are fairly horrific and even stomach churning but as one enters the authors head it is impossible not to experience the thrill of tribal warfare with him....well, almost. This is a very male book, dealing with male issues of identity, masculinity and femininity which actually makes it a fascinating book for women too. Best new voice I've heard in a long long time.