Who'd be sixteen again? Not I, certainly! Reading this brought many painful memories of life as a teenager - and even though this book is specifically about American high schools, I think the lessons apply pretty much across the board.
In this book Robbins looks at the way teenagers label both others and themselves, the way they create cliques, 'in'-crowds and on the flip side, outcasts, unpopular kids, geeks. She argues that the teenage years are those when an individual's creativity and imagination is at their height, when kids are struggling to define themselves and their place in the world, and this is also the age when the desire to be 'in', to be part of a group, to conform, to belong is also at its heights. Some kids conform, and others don't.
Robbins' argument is that the kids that don't conform in high school, the kids with some kind of definable 'quirk' that sets them apart from their peers, are usually the kids who are more likely to succeed after high school, because those 'quirks', whilst not valued in high school, are precisely the qualities that will help them succeed as adults, that will make them stand out from the crowd.
One of the most interesting things for me about this book was the view on the educators, the teachers and school administrators, and how they can fall prey to the same kind of cliquish behaviour and stereotypic labelling - how the popular kids get away with more, how the geeky students are mocked, how higher esteem is placed on athletic success than academic, how so many schools seem to view equality with homogeneity.
My heart broke for some of the kids in this book, and others made me want to stand up and cheer. To have the self-possession and confidence to be yourself, regardless of what others think, at such a young age...Robbins is right, those are the stars of the future. I'll take the outcasts anyday too.