The Flirt Coach's Secrets of Attraction: Develop Irresistible Pulling Power In All Areas of Your Life! [Paperback]

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Renowned Flirt Coach Peta Heskell explains what gives a person the ‘Attraction Factor’ and describes how you too can get it in just 30 days. Discover the secrets of attraction and finally get what you want out of life.

• Attraction is a quality that everyone desires and few actually have. Attractive people easily find relationships and careers that are just right for them.

• Peta Heskell uses NLP techniques and other processes to teach you how to be attractive in all areas of your life.

• This book presents a plan of Attraction Action: 30 days to a more attractive you.

Includes:
• The Anatomy of Attraction – what makes an attractive person
• The Power of You – developing confidence and self esteem
• The Lure of Purpose – slotting into your destined place in the world and aligning your desires with your expectations
• Enchanting Voice and Sweet Talking Body – harnessing the power of your voice and body
• Siren Language – communicating, enthusing, advising and influencing
• Enticing Energy – how to send out positive vibes

Peta Heskell is a licensed NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) trainer and a successful relationships and dating coach. Resident in England, she has led workshops for over 12 years. She has worked as a consultant to major dating agencies in the US and the UK and has a private practice in London.

Introduction
The Genesis of Attraction
Would you like to be truly attractive in all areas of your life? Sounds great, doesn’t it? But do you really know what true attractiveness is?
Truly attractive people draw endless ‘abundance’ to all areas of their lives. They easily find love, sex, relationships and careers that are just right for them; sickness is a stranger to their bed; they love the work they do and even if they aren’t millionaires, they consider themselves rich beyond measure. We wonder at the magical qualities they seem to possess. And most of us want some of the magic for ourselves.
We can have it. Each of us can radiate our unique powers of attraction into the world. Yes, that means YOU too. This book will show you how.
I have spent the last 16 years studying working on my own personal development and coaching many other people as well. As I began to be who I truly am, discard the clothes that I thought ‘they’ wanted me to wear, to speak openly and honestly to many people in my writing, and to fully embrace my purpose and let it guide me, I realised that I’d been putting my real self out there more and more. And it was drawing very special people into my sphere, people who are helping me expand beyond measure. I began to work with my clients in this way, helping them building up their inner resources and have a true sense of who they are. And as they did this, the more successful they were at magnetically attracting great careers, good friends and eventually well-matched lovers. They became more alluring in every area of their lives.

The key to being attractive is to allow yourself to shine in all areas of your life. This includes getting to know who you really are, finding your sense of purpose, harnessing and channelling your boundless energy, becoming more loving and loveable, having a sense of connection to other people and developing a powerful set of communication skills. When you are like this you will begin to attract more and more of what’s right for you, whether it’s love, sex, friendship, a happy family or success in your career.
So, if you’re looking to attract a new job or improve your social life or find romance, and you’re ready to take the leap, read on. Here’s a taster of what lies ahead:

The Science of Attraction:
Before we get into the factors that make up a truly attractive person, we’re going to look at some of the common myths about attraction. We’ll be examining physical, chemical and traditional romantic attraction, and the science that lies behind it all.

The Heart and Soul of Attraction:
Truly attractive people have what I call ‘heart and soul’. In this chapter you will begin to tune in to your emotions and learn how to understand other people’s emotions too. You will discover the power of living in the present, connecting to others, listening to your gut and letting go of unhelpful thoughts.

The Power of You:
Here you will go beyond the boundaries of primitive attraction to develop the confidence and self-esteem that are the most powerful attraction factors of all. You will begin to enjoy who you really are, unleash your own power and develop your unique ‘Attraction Quotient’.

The Lure of Purpose:
If you are looking to find the work that works for you, and makes each day a joy to begin, read this chapter. You will learn how to uncover your life purpose and attract the work that’s right for you as work turns into play!.

Enticing Energy:
This chapter is full of ideas on how to harness the power of your voice and body to transmit your own enticing energy into the world.

Charismatic Communication:
Compelling and charismatic communication is one of the most potent attraction factors of all. Become privy to the secrets of charismatic people who just seem to have the knack of ’spot-on’ communication

Attraction Action:
This is your personal ‘Attraction Integration Plan’. It will draw together everything you’ve learned and provide activities to get you going on the path to a more attractive you.

Resources:
And if after reading this book you’re already thinking, ‘What’s next?’ I provide a comprehensive list of tried and tested books, tapes and courses that will complement what you’ve already done as well as introduce you to a whole host of new ideas. And there are full details of private coaching and classes with me. I guarantee, you will be inspired.

Of course there will be things in this book that will not be for you, as well as things that will leap out and speak to you. Take what works for you and leave the rest for the time being. You may find yourself coming back to it. And when you put your mind to it, and let the stories speak to you, and work through the explorations, you will discover that you have the power to become attractive in ways you might not even have imagined yet!

If you take one thing from this book that truly helps you to realize just how attractive you are, or what potential you have, then I’ve done what I set out to do. But I warn you, there’s a catch: you have to be ready and you have to really want to go beyond the material to the essence of who you really are and what you really desire...

If you are, then take a deep breath, let it out slowly, smile, allow the excitement to bubble up and prepare yourself to accompany me on a journey to release your own unique and lifelong powers of attraction.

When you’re ready now, let’s go….!