Hi there,
I have read a lot of books for wives by popular Christian authors. This book is the best by far because it lovingly instructs us how to love our husbands, be carers for our families and home, and most importantly how to obey God's specific commands for us as written in the Scriptures.
Many believing women (and some men) think that the Bible is no longer an instruction book on how to obey God (many may not even see the Bible as God's word if they take this view -- I don't know). This book appeals to the converted spirit, not our flesh. Our sinful nature, even after conversion, doesn't always fancy being told that our thinking patterns are sinful or in need of adjustment. But this is exactly what we need if we want to understand what God's will is for our lives.
I can understand why many modern-thinking people do not like this book. We live in an age where most pastors don't want to preach about sin and the Grace of God, which can only be taught when you talk about sin. The Cross is generally offensive -- even to those who "believe in Jesus". We must recall that Christ died for our sins, not to make us feel good about ourselves or comfortable in our sin. We must also remember that knowledge of our sins and repentance pleases God. It is also because of His Forgiveness found in Christ that we can truly understand the Love of God. Anyone loves the good qualities in us. God loves us because of His love for Christ, for His Glory, not our own.
Martha Peace brings the Gospel out in its full glory in this book. I would even give this to an unbelieving friend. In fact, one of my unbelieving friends (that is, one who doesn't understand or believe the Gospel as yet) believes some of the principles in this book -- women's place of supporting her husband, being a carer for the home, and that she makes many un-loving mistakes with her family. It's a sad day when an unbeliever thinks something biblical is right and some christians think it's wrong.
If you are of the Nouthetic school, this book is utterly and completely Nouthetic and I can now see why Jay E. Adams recommends it.
I thank the Lord for this sister.
Thanks for reading.
* I don't mean to offend people with any comments. I have many beloved friends that are Christian that might not like this book. My respect for them is unchanged regarding our differences.