As a mother of 3 children, I have found this book extremely beneficial. It is unlike other parenting guides that I have read, in that it focuses primarily on you as the parent, and how your behaviour towards your child directly influences his/her behaviour. This is a new way of looking at the whole subject of parenting and I have found it incredibly inspiring. It has not only helped me in the way that I interact with my children, but I would say that it has had an enormously positive effect on family life as a whole. There is certainly a calmer atmosphere at home now and I feel much more in control of my life! As I'm much happier in myself I would say that my relationship with my partner has benefitted too. Lorraine Thomas writes in a clear, practical way, looking at all of the issues which are so relevant to parents today, with humour and obvious understanding of the subject!