My fiance bought this book for me because we both loved the graphics, we liked that it was made by Philadelphians and he though it would make a cute gift. Well cute gift it was, and then I actually read it and have found it to be really helpful and have consulted it multiple times especially the sticky situations, bridesmaid sections, invitee selection and advice on dealing with family. Planning a wedding really does bring out all of these bizzaire sides of people you thought were normal. It is the only wedding book out of 3 that were given to me that I actually use (and kept) and I love it. I must have a very similar idea to what a wedding should be like as the author of this book. It has turned out to very practical in addition to pretty. I just ordered the Groom's Instruction Manual and I hope he enjoys his as much as I have mine.