Previously I have only read articles by Kathy Lette. Her writing style is electrically individual and unusual; the only other writer who comes close is Jilly Cooper with her multitude of loaded clichés and double entendres. Kathy enthusiastically makes them up; almost every paragraph has a freshly minted simile, everything is `like' some other mad/ funny idea. So for me, short articles and interviews are an easier way of enjoying her zany outlook and wise cracking way. A whole book full can be a little much, overly rich; the material comes over as more suited to a fast-talking stand up comedienne. I began to rather yearn for a simple, clear, ordinary sentence.
Merlin is a masterpiece. His unique utterings work perfectly. Kathy knows her subject, I have seen and heard her being interviewed about this her latest book, and bravely for the first time she openly explains that her own son Julius, 21, has Asperger's. Her `research material was in the bedroom next door'. `People with Asperger's have no filter - they say exactly what they're thinking' she tells us. From time to time I would say she does the same...
Life with him has been the ultimate parenting challenge so her writing has an impeccable source. He has read this book and champions it as a great way for others to learn to understand kids like him. So really ringing true, the golden thread of Merlin's story takes off, lifting the reader away from the cruder, obsessive behaviour displayed by his mother Lucy. Lucy, a teacher, has no chance of a boyfriend although she does try, sometimes hilariously. Lucy/Kathy's completely understandable anxiety and fraught overwrought love for a fine, `differently able' son offers an important insight into the way things are for such families. Kathy has used humour in the past to deflect the personal. Now she is opening up. And good for her.
For most of the book, Lucy is brittle, damaged and difficult. Her shallow husband Jeremy abandoned her within months of Merlin's diagnosis. He squeezes her alimony to the least possible contribution and flits off to the USA with his new girlfriend. Lucy relentlessly battles with educational and social services - authority - and makes your heart bleed for her. Her family support is intermittent; her mother gives all her time and love to lost causes all over the world, only helicoptering in occasionally to issue edicts about Lucy's love life. Her sister Polly is more reliable but her career as cabin crew takes her away. Polly is very sweet and kind, I liked her most of all. Jeremy's parents are just dreadful.
Eventually a surprising new helper, Archibald, an Aussie written again with authority, arrives to help and with Merlin reaching his teens things change. The book quickly moves on into quite amusing chick lit territory, still with the same sometimes overwhelming array of occasionally painful, mostly overwritten puns. Looking at Kathy's other 10 books I see that this is probably her most significant in that she has a personal account to offer. No bad thing to be able to laugh/cry along with her over the crazy things that happen - I realised that was a great coping strategy - reacting in apparently an over the top way somehow turned the whole experience into an entertaining enlightenment. There is a strong drama theme too. Overall I liked it a lot.
n.b. Kathy Lette has written reams of references to rude bits and graphic descriptions of love making often without the love part so this book could be described as x rated - unlike
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time which could be read by younger children.
p.s. another excellent read about this subject is
House Rules by Jodi Picoult.