Hi mummies (and daddies)
I am currently 11 weeks pregnant and have just finished reading this book.
Ok, this is the situation:
Firstly it's so American. To be clear, like many Brits, I'm in a little obsessed with the States, however, sometimes it's just plain irritating. An example 'If you think that, what kind of turnip truck did you fall off!'
I can imagine that some would enjoy the over the top, funny in parts and trying too damn hard to be funny in others, way of writing, in fact it's why I picked it up, but it became annoying after a couple of pages.
Secondly, the overall feel of the book is alike to one might get at a stand up comedy show (one of my very worst nightmates)one of the main problems with this is as she focuses so much on (proudly & knowingy) being an in-your-face, no nonsene mum- she leaves us feeling pretty uninspired.
According to Vicki we have the following to look forward to;
Saggy empty boobs
A husband (or Wife) who is irritaed by us AND doesn't find us attractive. She also believes men shouldnt be forced to go the antenatal classes and such events. PLEASE. My partner is female but extremely boyish and not into anything femenine but she will be at ALL these things with me as this baby is OURS.
She also really forces epidurals down our throats and puts down women who have natural births. She suggests wine in the evening to keep you calm through pregnany. Both these things are a huge matter of opinion and she needed to be far more careful.
Back to the sexist thing, she 'GUARANTEES' we'd sooner chuck out nappies given as gifts with pink on them, than ever put them on our sons. Good God is she serious- my newborn couldn't care less what colour he/she poops in as nether do I.
She focused an entire chapter on how amazing your hair and nails become, but mine (and my others) have become dry and crap, so that needed to be fixed.
The reason I gave it 2 and not 1 is because it's nice reading a book on pregnancy from a woman who has been pregnant, so many are not. It's also funny in parts.
Happy Pregnancy ladies x