- Hardcover: 111 pages
- Publisher: Hay House (Jan 2009)
- Language English
- ISBN-10: 140191828X
- ISBN-13: 978-1401918286
- Product Dimensions: 21.7 x 20.8 x 1.5 cm
- Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
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Persuasive and practical (Women's Fitness magazine )
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This life-changing handbook by offers you twelve strategies to change your life, month by month. As each chapter challenges you to alter one behaviour or circumstance that holds you back, you'll learn how to understand the true impact of your surroundings, accept disappointments in all areas when they arise, find your natural rhythm and ride life's waves, and discover your passions and strengths to get the best out of your life.
With sound advice, effective exercises and resources to take each step further, this practical handbook for the heart and mind will show you that by changing your mindset, you can radically change your life.
--This text refers to the Paperback edition.
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42 of 47 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover
If you are ready to lighten up and enjoy life, this is the book for you!
Did you know that you don't have to suffer daily just because the economy is bad, your promotion prospects are bleak, and the television keeps reporting exceptionally discouraging news? Cheryl Richardson has the right view . . . that life can be a pleasure and from that pleasure you can bring much happiness to others.
She realizes that you probably have lots of bad habits that make you miserable and suggests one change a month that cumulatively build to create the kind of enjoyable life that may exceed your wildest hopes. The changes are couched in gentle, friendly terms and illustrated with breath-taking photos.
Ms. Richardson describes how hiring a personal coach changed her life and taught her the lessons in this book. If you just follow this advice, it's like saving hundreds of dollars to get valuable secrets.
In the first month, you identify where you are deprived (such as in sleep, emotional support, personal time, energy, companionship, peacefulness, hope, and physical closeness) and start eliminating those deprivations that are most important to you.
In the second month, you begin to approve of yourself more through a series of mirror exercises where you tell yourself, "I love you."
In month three, you learn how to say "no" and do it nicely.
In month four, you re-schedule your life to feel more comfortable and do important activities that make you feel great at the optimal times.
In month five, you offload a lot of what keeps you overly busy, annoyed, and stressed by "letting go."
In month six, you decide what you will never do again . . . all of those things that make life a drudge and an annoyance. You then work on remembering to stop doing those things.
In month seven, you change where you live and work to nurture rather than annoy you.
In the eighth month, you learn to insulate yourself from things that stress you out and serve no purpose (such as watching the latest violence on the television news).
In the ninth month, you begin to pay more attention to your health and body.
In the tenth month, you work on letting anger go.
In the eleventh month, you identify and begin to spend time on something that you are passionate about.
During the last month, you develop a plan for dealing with unexpected problems and emotional blows.
Each chapter is filled with lists of books and other resources you can use to flesh out the simple concepts that the book presents.
I read this book while on a long plane flight and found myself enjoying the trip simply due to taking Ms. Richardson's approach to how I thought about and treated the experience. Instead of being a bore, I had fun!
Did you know that you don't have to suffer daily just because the economy is bad, your promotion prospects are bleak, and the television keeps reporting exceptionally discouraging news? Cheryl Richardson has the right view . . . that life can be a pleasure and from that pleasure you can bring much happiness to others.
She realizes that you probably have lots of bad habits that make you miserable and suggests one change a month that cumulatively build to create the kind of enjoyable life that may exceed your wildest hopes. The changes are couched in gentle, friendly terms and illustrated with breath-taking photos.
Ms. Richardson describes how hiring a personal coach changed her life and taught her the lessons in this book. If you just follow this advice, it's like saving hundreds of dollars to get valuable secrets.
In the first month, you identify where you are deprived (such as in sleep, emotional support, personal time, energy, companionship, peacefulness, hope, and physical closeness) and start eliminating those deprivations that are most important to you.
In the second month, you begin to approve of yourself more through a series of mirror exercises where you tell yourself, "I love you."
In month three, you learn how to say "no" and do it nicely.
In month four, you re-schedule your life to feel more comfortable and do important activities that make you feel great at the optimal times.
In month five, you offload a lot of what keeps you overly busy, annoyed, and stressed by "letting go."
In month six, you decide what you will never do again . . . all of those things that make life a drudge and an annoyance. You then work on remembering to stop doing those things.
In month seven, you change where you live and work to nurture rather than annoy you.
In the eighth month, you learn to insulate yourself from things that stress you out and serve no purpose (such as watching the latest violence on the television news).
In the ninth month, you begin to pay more attention to your health and body.
In the tenth month, you work on letting anger go.
In the eleventh month, you identify and begin to spend time on something that you are passionate about.
During the last month, you develop a plan for dealing with unexpected problems and emotional blows.
Each chapter is filled with lists of books and other resources you can use to flesh out the simple concepts that the book presents.
I read this book while on a long plane flight and found myself enjoying the trip simply due to taking Ms. Richardson's approach to how I thought about and treated the experience. Instead of being a bore, I had fun!
61 of 71 people found the following review helpful
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This book describes, with honesty, many of Cheryl Richardson's personal experiences from which she offers detailed advice to a special interest group. (That would be fine except that there is nothing in the marketing material to indicate the special interest reader.)
The group comprises women aged approx.25-45, able-bodied, heterosexual with a husband/partner and children at home; well educated women with professional (traditional) work and with access to the Internet; women who accept gendered concepts of facials/fashion/pampering.
For this group, the "insiders", the book will resonate strongly and be applicable to their lives.
For the many women outside of that group, for most men and for most minorities the book will not resonate. They would frequently need to modify advice to make it relevant to their own lives. This group of "outsiders" will often have the feeling that they are reading about a private club to which they do not belong.
There is no doubting CR's complete sincerity or the excellence of some of the advice but it is a great pity that she does not write for the general public and does not take into account the diversity and inequalities in society.
Footnote: Approach the resource lists with caution. Some of the books and websites are decidedly eccentric and consequently unhelpful. None of the books listed in the first edition has a publisher, publication date or an ISBN number given. This can make locating a book difficult, especially for overseas readers.
The group comprises women aged approx.25-45, able-bodied, heterosexual with a husband/partner and children at home; well educated women with professional (traditional) work and with access to the Internet; women who accept gendered concepts of facials/fashion/pampering.
For this group, the "insiders", the book will resonate strongly and be applicable to their lives.
For the many women outside of that group, for most men and for most minorities the book will not resonate. They would frequently need to modify advice to make it relevant to their own lives. This group of "outsiders" will often have the feeling that they are reading about a private club to which they do not belong.
There is no doubting CR's complete sincerity or the excellence of some of the advice but it is a great pity that she does not write for the general public and does not take into account the diversity and inequalities in society.
Footnote: Approach the resource lists with caution. Some of the books and websites are decidedly eccentric and consequently unhelpful. None of the books listed in the first edition has a publisher, publication date or an ISBN number given. This can make locating a book difficult, especially for overseas readers.
11 of 15 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover
I have to agree with the previous review. Not only does Cheryl Richardson write for middle-class, middle-aged, well-off professional women, which is a small and specific special-interest group, but she writes for AMERICAN readers to the exclusion of all others.
I like CR a lot and have enjoyed her previous books. I agree with the previous review that she is obviously genuine and writes about a lifestyle she knows very well. My quibble is that she has nothing to say to those of us who do not shop in malls, drive kids to soccer, or have a hubby in tow who uncomplainingly furnishes the means to live care-free in a spacious suburban mansion somewhere in the land of the free.
I know that many American writers seem to be oblivious or dismissive of non-American readers, so CR is not to be singled out for blame. However, CR takes her exclusive orientation one step further. She has nothing to say to those Americans who are not well-off, middle-class or in the market for 'pampering' or overpriced motivational seminars. How do you practice self-care when you lose your job, your house, your marriage, your friends? CR has nothing to say to those of her compatriots who are undergoing those heart-breaking challenges now.
Nor does she have much to say to us in the UK. How many British women would be seen dead mouthing 'I love you' to their reflections in the bathroom mirror? How many would consider ditching a depressed aunt or a distressed and needy friend because they are difficult and draining? Our culture is more subtle and traditional than that of suburban America but Cheryl is as blissfully unaware of it as she is unaware of the cultures of inner-city and rural America. A curse of a sheltered life, I suppose.
Overall, I would suggest that in order to enjoy the best of CR the reader sticks to her two previous books, 'Take Time for Your Life' and 'Life Makeovers'. This book is derivative of the previous two and can be safely skipped - unless of course you the reader is planning an extreme life makeover that will transform you into a harrassed soccer mom, complete with mall shopping, motivational seminars, quality time and a pampering parlor! You have been warned!
I like CR a lot and have enjoyed her previous books. I agree with the previous review that she is obviously genuine and writes about a lifestyle she knows very well. My quibble is that she has nothing to say to those of us who do not shop in malls, drive kids to soccer, or have a hubby in tow who uncomplainingly furnishes the means to live care-free in a spacious suburban mansion somewhere in the land of the free.
I know that many American writers seem to be oblivious or dismissive of non-American readers, so CR is not to be singled out for blame. However, CR takes her exclusive orientation one step further. She has nothing to say to those Americans who are not well-off, middle-class or in the market for 'pampering' or overpriced motivational seminars. How do you practice self-care when you lose your job, your house, your marriage, your friends? CR has nothing to say to those of her compatriots who are undergoing those heart-breaking challenges now.
Nor does she have much to say to us in the UK. How many British women would be seen dead mouthing 'I love you' to their reflections in the bathroom mirror? How many would consider ditching a depressed aunt or a distressed and needy friend because they are difficult and draining? Our culture is more subtle and traditional than that of suburban America but Cheryl is as blissfully unaware of it as she is unaware of the cultures of inner-city and rural America. A curse of a sheltered life, I suppose.
Overall, I would suggest that in order to enjoy the best of CR the reader sticks to her two previous books, 'Take Time for Your Life' and 'Life Makeovers'. This book is derivative of the previous two and can be safely skipped - unless of course you the reader is planning an extreme life makeover that will transform you into a harrassed soccer mom, complete with mall shopping, motivational seminars, quality time and a pampering parlor! You have been warned!
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