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The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking [Paperback]

Oliver Burkeman
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3 Jan 2013

Is our search for happiness futile?

Or are we just going about it the wrong way?

In this fascinating new book, Oliver Burkeman argues that 'positive thinking' and relentless optimism aren't the solution to the happiness dilemma, but part of the problem. And that there is, in fact, an alternative path to contentment and success that involves embracing the things we spend our lives trying to avoid - uncertainty, insecurity, pessimism and failure. Thought-provoking, counter-intuitive and ultimately uplifting, The Antidote is a celebration of the power of negative thinking.


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  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Canongate Books; Main ed edition (3 Jan 2013)
  • Language: Unknown
  • ISBN-10: 1847678661
  • ISBN-13: 978-1847678669
  • Product Dimensions: 19.6 x 12.8 x 1.8 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (121 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 4,933 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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An excellent book; Burkeman makes us see that our current approach, in which we want happiness but search for certainty - often in the shape of material goods - is counterproductive. We're on a treadmill of disappointment. So Burkeman explores a better way, and tells us about the philosophers and thinkers who have inspired him (***** Daily Telegraph,)

He has written some of the most truthful and useful words on [happiness] to be published in recent years. This is a marvellous synthesis of good sense, which would make a bracing detox for the self-help junkie (Julian Baggini Guardian)

If life can only have one destination, then, Burkeman argues, we should enjoy the journey as much as we can and deal with the terminus when it comes. It's a simple idea, but an exhilarating and satisfying one (Observer)

Addictive, wise and very funny. Burkeman never takes himself too seriously, but the rest of us should. (Tim Harford author of THE UNDERCOVER ECONOMIST)

The Antidote is a gem. Countering a self-help tradition in which "positive thinking" too often takes the place of actual thinking, Oliver Burkeman returns our attention to several of philosophy's deeper traditions and does so with a light hand and a wry sense of humor. You'll come away from this book enriched - and, yes, even a little happier (Daniel H. Pink author of DRIVE and A WHOLE NEW MIND)

Quietly subversive, beautifully written, persuasive and profound, Oliver Burkeman's book will make you think - and smile (Alex Bellos author of ALEX'S ADVENTURES IN NUMBERLAND)

Does the pursuit of happiness make us miserable? In this elegant and erudite book, Oliver Burkeman explores the riddle of joy in the 21st century. This book doesn't set out to make you happy, but that may just be why it works (Jonah Lehrer, author of Imagine: How Creativity Works)

This is a genuinely useful book; Burkeman is not in the business of pouring automatic scorn; he really does want us to become slightly happier . . . Help! is win-win. If you do find yourself with those problems which, though potentially tractable, are disproportionately aggravating, then you will find solace and good advice here. If you do not, or rather think you do not, then you will be amused anyway. Either way, you won't need to read another self-help book again. (Nicholas Lezard, Guardian)

[The Antidote] has performed a neat trick by appealing to both the self-help superfan and the self-help cynic... it's immensely readable and rewarding (The Stylist)

Wry, thought-provoking and often hilarious (Irish Independent)

Burkeman's entertainingly argued proposition seems refreshingly well-grounded in reality, solid research and common sense and is probably worth a shot... (Good Book Guide)

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49 of 52 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars How to be 8 July 2012
By Eleanor TOP 500 REVIEWER
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In "The Antidote" Oliver Burkeman argues that happiness (whatever that is) can not be achieved through manic positive thinking, motivational pep talks, or narrowly-focused goal setting. Instead one can find a fulfilling way to live by embracing uncertainty and giving negative thoughts their due. In eight chapters we meet Stoics, Buddhists, and other thinkers who all possess:

"A willingness to adopt an oblique stance towards one's own inner life; to pause and take a step back; to turn to face what others might flee from; and to realise that the shortest apparent route to a positive mood is rarely a sure path to a more profound kind of happiness."

Burkeman emphasizes that, unlike so many motivational speakers, he is not intending to offer fail-safe rules for a happy life. Instead he thoughtfully and thoroughly explores topics we might usually shy away from, arriving at wise advice. I already feel calmer and more content having been immersed in his ideas, and perversely I'm looking forward to a chance to test his techniques.

Having greatly enjoyed and valued Burkeman's previous book Help!: How to Become Slightly Happier and Get a Bit More Done, I was worried that "The Antidote" would cover too much of the same ground. This new book, however, felt fresh and readable offering a more sustained and meaty thesis than the short articles in "Help", whilst still retaining the humour and anecdotes that made the first book such a pleasure.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Discomforting Degree of Honesty 24 Feb 2014
By clahain
Format:Kindle Edition
Reading THE ANTIDOTE: HAPPINESS FOR PEOPLE WHO CAN'T STAND POSITIVE THINKING isn't a comfortable experience. I'd run into an excerpt in the online magazine BRAIN PICKINGS and was prepared for a snide, curmudgeonly critique of our be-happy-or-something's-wrong-with-you culture. And Burkeman certainly demonstrates many of the hallmarks of a grumpy old man. He's skeptical, judgmental, argumentative. He also seems to be onto something that most of us, in our rush to capture joy and fulfillment in a (recycled) bottle, never manage to grasp: prayers, wishes and abundance spells aside, things do not always work out for the best. Worse, as good as things might be at the moment, it'll all head downhill as we inevitably age and die.

One day the sun will rise without us.

That's the plain truth of the matter. It's also, according to Burkeman, why it's so important that we live our time here on earth with our eyes wide open. Even if it's hard. And scary.

Burkman gathers evidence from various schools of philosophy/religion/psychology. One of the most entertaining parts of the book is the chapter about his week in the forests of Massachusetts attempting Buddhist meditation. His evaluation of the power our momentary (and often inaccurate) thoughts/judgments have over our perception of our world is fascinating.

I also enjoyed his discussion of Stoicism, basically, the idea that emotional pain results not from outside events themselves, but from our judgement about those events. This isn't, as many people believe, an attitude of "life's terrible so deal with it." It's more "plan for the worst and hope it doesn't turn out quite so bad." Some would call this crass pessimism or even nihilism, the belief that life is essentially meaningless.
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18 of 20 people found the following review helpful
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I loved this book. It's as if Bill Bryson or Louis Theroux had performed a road trip into the world of self help. Yet the book has Burkeman's excellent style as a rational, intelligent journalist at heart and this work is both readable and important. Why important? Because it is the first book I have ever read that effortlessly and amusingly conveys hundreds of philosophical and psychological points on happiness into a coherent whole in a way that makes it a pleasure to consume. It should be required reading for all 18 year olds! I am 47 ... Buy it!
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Funny, open minded, interesting and a good read 29 Aug 2012
By JK TOP 50 REVIEWER VINE VOICE
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OK; I didn't really get too much of the philosophy but I did enjoy reading The Antidote. Oliver Burkeman is hilarious. His dry, cutting sense of humour turned something which could have so quickly become pompous and preaching into an absolute pleasure and a joy to read. Amazingly enough, because I enjoyed the reading experience and had a smile on my face, I've taken in more of the content than I have with any self-help book but; I can't say I've altered my way of thinking to any great degree. The Antidote will introduce you to the concept; "..does the pursuit of happiness make us miserable..", Burkeman throws in a widely diverse group of people, theories and arguments in an open handed, often humorous manner, as he attempts to convince you that yes, it does. There are some powerful and interesting voices in the book and it's diverse, you couldn't accuse Burkeman of being single minded, he has gone out of his way to cover all of the bases.

In summary I'd say The Antidote is well worth the read even if you don't normally delve into this type of literature. Not overly long, interesting, funny and written in a way that grabs the attention without ever becoming dry or taking itself too seriously. You won't feel disappointed if you come away from this experience disagreeing with the concept, Burkeman is gentle enough to leave that up to you, but who knows, maybe you'll find The Antidote life changing, so give it a go.
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3.0 out of 5 stars Three Stars
okay.
Published 7 days ago by Tomlam
3.0 out of 5 stars Three Stars
This was okay but not strongly inspiring to me personally. And
Published 19 days ago by J. C. Wright
5.0 out of 5 stars Read this - and feel epic (sorry, positive)
Fantastic - indeed an antidote to all that depressing new age "positivism" rammed down our throats by the self-help industry. Well done Mr Burkeman
Published 29 days ago by Tim Horlick
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Loved this book
Published 1 month ago by Karen101
3.0 out of 5 stars All rather smug and self-indulgent.
I don’t think the British are great devotees of Positive Thinking with or without the capitals. We tend to have a more defensive, ironic stance, though I don’t think that that... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Bluecashmere.
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Thoughtful, clearly written, well researched.
Published 1 month ago by Jackie Bedford
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
An enjoyable and informative book which brings some balance and sanity into our crazy world.
Published 1 month ago by Kaz1250
3.0 out of 5 stars Promises more than it delivers
What springs to mind on encountering the title "The Antidote"? I think of being bitten by a snake, taking "The Antidote" and, voilà, in minutes, I'm cured. Read more
Published 2 months ago by William Shardlow
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book
A wonderfully debunking book. Confirmed a lot I had already thought, and provided fuel for more thought
Published 2 months ago by Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars The author explores a number of different ways of thinking about...
I found this book to be very interesting. The author explores a number of different ways of thinking about happiness - all of which take an opposite approach to what is put... Read more
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