I live in a European country in which Austism is very rare (and unknown to most) and support services and therapies that are common or commonly known in the USA and UK are virtually non-existent. I am always combing the internet for suggestions through websites or books on how to help my son and the title of this book definitely caught my eye. Unfortunately it is a huge disappointment. I did not find any new information and I would say at least 75% of this book is common sense for any parent, let alone a parent of a child with HFA/Asperger's. Social skills tips such as teaching your child to say 'hello' and 'goodbye', 'please' and thank you' at the appropriate times, or using reward systems such as a sticker chart to reinforce behaviors are basic at best. Under "matters of choice" the author suggsts limiting choices to two or three items instead of more than that. Under "meals and mealtimes" the author suggests no thank you tastes if a child is resistant to a certain food and allowing the child to help with meal preparation to encourage interest in mealtimes. The author also suggests "setting up an environment that encourages him to try and succeed". Hmmm. Under this heading suggestions include: allowing the child to learn to make a snack for himself, putting a stool in the kitchen so the child can wash his own hands or put a plate in the sink on his own, allowing the child to move clothes from the washer to the dryer, etc. Well, duh. I possibly might recommend this book to parents who are very new to the HFA/Asperger's diagnosis and have no idea where to begin but if you have any experience at all living with a HFA child (or any child, NT or HFA, for that matter) this book is sure to be a waste of time and money.