Well, if you wanted to know the 5 "W's" in dating I would get his book written by Barbora Knobova. In "Tales for Delicious Girls" not only has she done it all she tells you all about it. Some of the stories are laughable, cry-able, and downright curable, but, it still doesn't keep you sworn off men completely.
Don't let Ms. Barbara Knobova scare you off because you can still believe that old comment your momma told you all through school ... "There's someone out there for you and you'll know it when you meet him". So she's had some oranges that turned into lemons. With each person she grew and was able to see that within herself and that is a positive thing.
I honestly believe that by writing this book, Ms. Knobova re-confirmed finding herself, and realized she wasn't so bad and it's not all her or him and for that "Bravo". It's a good book to pass along. There are lessons here to be learned and to realize that it's not always the women who try to change the man. Relationships are work good or bad and sometimes it takes longer for the bad ones to show their face or the good ones to be enjoyed. Either way both parties must remain true to themselves. Great book!