How do you go about discussing your faith with others? Do you feel awkward when they raise objections? More likely to back down or endlessly getting into arguments that ultimately seem a bit futile? Then Tactics: A game plan for discussing your Christian convictions by Gregory Koukl could be the book for you.
In essence it's more a book about the art of conversation than about apologetics but you it often is an art and there are lessons that need learning. In fact this is more effective because you don't need to know all arguments against evolution to have positive and disarming conversation with someone who might appear to be an opponent.
So Koukl, who spends his life training and speaking in apologetics, begins with how to ask a well-aimed question, and ask more well aimed follow up questions that shift the burden of proof on to your conversation partner. Koukl also focuses in on the flaws in other people's arguments, lack of logic, or inconsistency that while they don't necessarily prove your point do cause the other person to pause about the validity of what they think. Each tactic is given a name like the Columbo or Just the Facts.
The substance of what Koukl says is very helpful and I learnt a few things about the inconsistencies say in a pro-choice position or the case made for a human morality by a humanist and so there is much to commend it. However, the manner left me a little cold. Don't get me wrong, Koukl consistently called for gentleness, kindness and respect. Stay clear of steam-rolling over people, point scoring, name calling or getting frustrated and angry. All things I've been guilty of in the past. It's more that it all seemed a bit mechanical, a bit hit and run and not chats with your actual friend, next-door neighbour or running partner.
Plus the idea of starting small groups that had the sole idea of learning how to quiz people just seemed a bit daft, I'm not sure I want a church full of Jeremy Paxman-esque inquisitors. Having said that, this is a book I'm keeping because there were some apolgetic gems in there worth referring to especially if you get involved in any kind of debate on a regular basis.