This eBook is an extremely candid and definitive record of the experiences of 15 lifestyle submissive females, it certainly isn’t some ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ or Nancy Friday fantasy-fest. These women ‘walk the talk’; whether it be extreme role-play, slave training, pony-girl, enforced servitude and prostitution, abduction and kidnapping. Consequently, some of the experiences related here could be considered extremely shocking and genuinely disturbing. It’s definitely not one for the faint hearted!
For many interviewees, the need for domination had its roots, not surprisingly, in childhood. An authoritarian, even brutal, father started a trend which they sought to recreate in future relationships, but other subjects found themselves instinctively drawn to it for reasons less explicable, certainly not out of diminished self-esteem or anything that obvious. In many of the stories told, the division between controlled and controller becomes blurred, in other words, the so-called submissive is actually directing the scenario. By far the most popular and powerful scenario for most women was the idea of being used by two or more men, total humiliation and degradation often being the key driver.
A submissive is rarely passive, but invariably an active participant in the action, often directing the scenario ‘from below’ and letting the dominant man or woman know exactly what she wants. As one slave-girl put it: “A woman will follow where she wants to be led”.