Having read a lot of the other reviews and the general consensus being that this remake is not a patch on the original, I am inclined to agree. The film is violent in places, and yes the rape scene is not as brutal, but in my eyes, this is no bad thing. Recently there seems to have been an uplift in the number of films (e.g. the Last House on the Left) with unneccesary, disturbing rape scenes. It seems writers and directors have run out of ways to shock and they are using sexual violence to achieve this aim. I would never watch a film with graphic rape scenes again as I don't feel comfortable watching them. I'm sure that I am not alone in feeling this, so ultimately film makers who use such tactics are failing in their primary responsibility, which is to provide the viewer with entertainment. I try not to buy a DVD to watch it just once, but in this case, the film will probably never see the light of day again. Fundamentally, I think we are all aware of what is happening in such a scene but I don't believe that we need to be too aware, if you catch my drift.
Going back to the film, it seemed weakly acted, with Alexander Skarsgard cast as a villain with no real depth. Unfortunately he has failed to lose the character of Eric Northman from True Blood; for a villain to be convincing, he needs to have real depth. The film also seems to take a while to get going, and when it does, it is at the end which is frankly, too late. The aim was obviously to create a hostile environment when everything comes to a head at the end, but the tension wasn't built up strongly or quickly enough. Not really worth watching. If you're looking for a horror/thriller that really gets underneath your skin, try Eden Lake.