This book has some great advice. But if you follow that advice, you might succeed but don't know why. Why do you have to keep space between you and your man? The book: Women men love, women men leave, explains why men don't have the constant need to be with a women and why they appreciate some space. And it's equally important in a relationship, in the dream-girl point of view, to be a indepedent fun-loving, not needy clingy women. But be aware. Not all advice is good. Her idea that you shouldn't approach a men (let him do all the work). Reality is that most men are shy and won't do the first move unless they know they have some percenta of not being rejected. And those men are more husband-material then the player who won't be shy to approach you. So to summarize: this books holds some great advice, which I would have liked to know before, but it's not a bible, remain critical of what you read. If you want a better understanding of men or want a relationship to last then read Women Men Love, Women Men Leave.