When you start playing it's surprising that you need to work on several areas that aren't related: how to keep accurate time, independence and stick control (i.e. playing accurately at speed in various patterns)before you get to the stuff that shows you how to play like Buddy, Art, Bonzo or Joey. Keeping time needs some work with the metronome early on but then improves as a by-product of your other practice, so although it's the most essential part of drumming it needs least practice until you start playing in odd metres and compound time signatures. There's a million independence books out there, get a big one with a score size you can read comfortably and not too much text. Then get this.
It's a staggeringly dull book - original grey cover (I think it looks great), and pages of snare drum patterns.The first 3 pages just have a series of 2 bar eigth-note patterns without accents (you want accents? Buy his next book!)with various sticking patterns. Seems easy, then you realise how much you have to learn, grasshopper. Get through these at a good tempo and you can play the snare a bit.After that the patterns look at triplets (and switching from staight eighths into triplets), roll combinations and so on for 46 horrible pages. This is not a lot of fun to do, and it's always tempting to try a Play along with Coldplay book instead (even duller I suspect), but just play a short section every day, even on a pad while watching the telly with a click in one ear.There's no need to finish the book, but it will quickly show you your limits, and get you to play with speed and accuracy like Neil and Art.
If you want to go further, Stone's Accents and Rebounds book is tough, Joe Morello's Master Studies is a more balanced approach, Ted Reed's Syncopation is great (and absurdly cheap),Buddy Rich apparenrly wrote some book about this stuff, Alan Dawson's Complete Drummer's Vocabularly is a continuation while Tommy Igoe's Great Hands DVD is a much more user-friendly starting point. As I said at the start, this is a vital field of practice and Stone's book is fantastic at showing you what you need to be able to do.