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Something I'm Not [Hardcover]

Lucy Beresford
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  • Hardcover: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Gerald Duckworth & Co Ltd (15 Feb 2008)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0715637096
  • ISBN-13: 978-0715637098
  • Product Dimensions: 21 x 15.4 x 2.8 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (30 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 683,665 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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A complex odyssey that is ambitious in scope, carefully structured and highly accessible. It trumpets the courage needed to make - and stand by - difficult, life-defining decisions, as well as the hereditary effects of unresolved trauma and the importance of friends to our mental well-being … Negotiate[s] all this without resorting to psychobabble or sentimentality, and still boast[s] authenticity and poignancy. --The Sunday Telegraph

Sparkling … Amber is a strong and sympathetic heroine and her friends are well-rounded individuals and recognisable contemporary types … Beresford's deft plotting and warm and witty writing makes this an assured debut. --The Daily Mail

If you've had enough of reading about yummy mummy, this tale of one woman's missing maternal urges provides a welcome antidote to the glut of babbling baby books … there are no dribbling anti-child clichés in this heartfelt take on how friends can be the new family. A refreshing and thought provoking peak at people who'd rather have a cat flap than a kid. --Handbag.com

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'Sparkling ... Bereford's deft plotting and warm and witty writing makes this an assured debut'

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Farfetched and untrue to title, 22 July 2010
This review is from: Something I'm Not (Paperback)
I was drawn to the strong and inviting title "Something I'm Not" as the cover suggests that the book will offer strong-minded points of view of a childfree, career-oriented, happily coupled-up, independent woman.

The book delivers none of that.

Instead, it's a novel about a pathetic little girl, who grew up to be a pathetic woman, scarred as a child and still letting her life be overshadowed by the bully of her childhood. Under a different title, this COULD be an interesting story. However the storyline and characters are so thin (could be summed up as the fat one, the gay one, the breeder etc.), that this book is read in an instant, and offers no food for thought whatsoever.

Even the main character is unbelievably narrow, and so whiny and -I can't find a better word!, pathetic, that she didn't have me feeling sympathy for her. The few discussions she has with a -seemingly- likeminded friend, about the downsides of having kids, have no depth or anything NEW either.

This book doesn't bring anything to the table, on the subject of being childfree, because it hardly even touches the subject. As a fictious novel, it's unimaginatively written, lacks depth and doesn't actually resolve the issues of the characters,and leads nowhere.

On more than a few occasions, I found myself thinking: "Why am I reading this book??", it was so poor, boring and unentertaining. Truely a dissappointment!

It would be time to show childfree women as strong-minded and independent, who make their own choises, instead of sheepishly walking the most beaten paths. Ones that can articulate their opinions, however unpopular by the majority, who still secretly wishes to be them.

Sadly, this book doesn't have the guts.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Oh! Hit me hard with the kitchen sink!, 9 Jan 2011
This review is from: Something I'm Not (Paperback)
I picked it up, because, being female and not so hot on breeding, I thought it dealt with an important issue, but oh! the style of writing was cringeworthy. Compare it to a popular psychology lecture gone wrong. The mishmash of characters drawn from London's upper middle classes, complete with cliches anda token gay vicvar thrown in, were like from some literary random generator, the dialogues twisted and completely illogical at times, and many of the protagonists actions just didn't make sense. Looking at the blurb in the back of the book, I discovered to my great shock that its author features regularly on TV, so I did some light background research - seems here's another pop psychologist (3 scientific presentations so far) anting to see their book published as the numerous book reviews in in the Torygraph and the Spectator wouldn't cut it any more. if you like to reasd some psychodrivel for amusement, give this book a try, if you are seriously thinking about the subject matter on whether to have children or not, then look elsewhere.
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Equally good and bad, 1 May 2009
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As a 30 something woman with no desire to have children I had high hopes for this book - and yes in parts it was incisively observed and very well written. However - these good parts were more than wiped out by the overriding theme of the novel. The book implies that the reason this woman does not want children is purely driven by her mothers treatment of her as a child - I found the concept both predictable and patronising. I hoped for a more rounded approach and was highly disappointed. Particularly as the other character who was anti-children falls pregnant by accident and suddenly morphs into your typical gushing natural Madonna.
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