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Solutions for Adults with Asperger's Syndrome: Maximizing the Benefits, Minimizing the Drawbacks to Achieve Success: Maximizing the Benefits and Minimizing the Drawbacks to Achieve Success [Kindle Edition]

Juanita P. Lovett
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This book deserves special kudos for addressing issues directly involving adults with Asperger's Syndrome (AS), e.g. marriage and employment. For people who have AS or are directly involved with someone who does, make this book your best friend. I like the way the author says that AS "does not become fatal" nor is it miraculously cured by the time a person turns 18. AS is not limited to children; children with AS become adults with the condition. Lovett's darts hit the description, definition and issues in re AS right in the bull's eye and punctures neurotypical (NT) myths about AS. This book deserves a place of honor. The chapters are logically laid out and clearly identified with the subject matter being covered. Helpful vignettes involving people with AS are included along with discussions about the vignettes and the issues involved. One of the greatest services this book does is to state that AS, which is the spectrum partner of autism is not a mental illness, but a neurobiological condition. AS is NOT caused by poor parenting and neglect; there is no medication for it and stupid myths such as these have long been disproved as being the crocks of bull that they always were. Examples of interaction; discussion of accomodations being made for people on the autism/Asperger's (a/A) spectrum on jobs and parents with AS are included. This is a book no adult with AS should be without. It is also an excellent teaching tool for the neurotypical (NT) population as well. This book has something for everybody and I can't recommend it highly enough. --BeetleBangs1964

This is an excellent review of Asperger's and other autistic spectrum diseases. There being so little available for adults, it is particularly useful for relatives and friends who need to understand their Asperger's friends/relatives. Not all Asperger's sufferers will be able to use the author's advice. Only the highest functioning, most self-aware individuals will be able to adopt the coping mechanisms the author suggests. The writing is quite repetitive, but perhaps this was intentional. Good education for those who know nothing about the spectrum of autistic diseases --John E Swindels

Solutions for Adults with Asperger's Syndrome is an excellent book! I very much like the layout of the book in which important information is placed in summary "blocks" for easy referral when needed. It is easy to read and yet contains accurate detail to assist anyone in determining why a person may demonstrate behaviors that are seemingly unexplainable. Thank you Juanita Lovett, you have made a great contribution to helping many people! --Catherine Schneider, author of Sensory Secrets

This book deserves special kudos for addressing issues directly involving adults with Asperger's Syndrome (AS), e.g. marriage and employment. For people who have AS or are directly involved with someone who does, make this book your best friend. I like the way the author says that AS "does not become fatal" nor is it miraculously cured by the time a person turns 18. AS is not limited to children; children with AS become adults with the condition. Lovett's darts hit the description, definition and issues in re AS right in the bull's eye and punctures neurotypical (NT) myths about AS. This book deserves a place of honor. The chapters are logically laid out and clearly identified with the subject matter being covered. Helpful vignettes involving people with AS are included along with discussions about the vignettes and the issues involved. One of the greatest services this book does is to state that AS, which is the spectrum partner of autism is not a mental illness, but a neurobiological condition. AS is NOT caused by poor parenting and neglect; there is no medication for it and stupid myths such as these have long been disproved as being the crocks of bull that they always were. Examples of interaction; discussion of accomodations being made for people on the autism/Asperger's (a/A) spectrum on jobs and parents with AS are included. This is a book no adult with AS should be without. It is also an excellent teaching tool for the neurotypical (NT) population as well. This book has something for everybody and I can't recommend it highly enough. --BeetleBangs 1964

This is an excellent review of Asperger's and other autistic spectrum diseases. There being so little available for adults, it is particularly useful for relatives and friends who need to understand their Asperger's friends/relatives. Not all Asperger's sufferers will be able to use the author's advice. Only the highest functioning, most self-aware individuals will be able to adopt the coping mechanisms the author suggests. The writing is quite repetitive, but perhaps this was intentional. Good education for those who know nothing about the spectrum of autistic diseases --John E Swindels

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Thomas Edison. Albert Einstein. Half of NASA. These are all extremely intelligent, successful adults who made great contributions to society and who are also suspected of having the developmental disorder called Asperger Syndrome. This relatively new diagnosis is being increasingly applied to both children and adults-in fact, it is now seen as running in familes. There are a lot of books on how to successfully raise children with AS, but until now, adults were left to figure it out on their own.

Dr. Juanita Lovett specializes in treating adults with AS and working with their families. In this book she shows those adults and their loved ones how to maximize the benefits of AS (including intense concentration, above-average intelligence, and high creativity) while minimizing the drawbacks (including lack of social skill, inability to connect emotionally with others, and propensity toward rage).

This important new book will help thousands of adults with AS learn to live happier, more fulfilling lives.


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  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 377 KB
  • Print Length: 300 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 1592331645
  • Publisher: Fair Winds Press (1 Sep 2005)
  • Sold by: Amazon Media EU S.à r.l.
  • Language English
  • ASIN: B004R1PVS4
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #125,293 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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21 of 21 people found the following review helpful
Enlightening 3 Jan 2009
Format:Hardcover
I bought this book as I suspect my partner has AS and is in the diagnosis process. It is remarkably enlightening and has helped me understand his behaviour and that of his family. I would recommend this book to any adult with AS or any adult who is in a relationship with someone with AS. It offers examples of behaviour and offers up some practical solutions.
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21 of 21 people found the following review helpful
Very useful 26 Sep 2008
Format:Hardcover
My 26 year old son has Asperger's and has said that this is very good. Strategies and advice are difficult to come by for the adult Aspie and he has learnt a great deal. Highly recommended by him.
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There is undoubtedly a lot of accurate and useful information in this book and as a piece of the puzzle it is not a bad place to start, particularly as there is so little information out there about adults with AS. However, writing as an adult female who has the syndrome, I have to say that I find parts of this book decidedly patronising to people on the spectrum and, like most books written by NTs (neuro-typicals), I find it somewhat biased towards viewing their way of being as 'correct' and our way of being as 'abnormal'. This, more than anything else, is guaranteed to make an Aspie angry and/or deeply upset! We are not broken or inferior, we are just different.

To begin with, I find the case study about Liz and Jenna on pages 63/64 riddled with assumptions. Both Liz and the author (NTs) have jumped to the conclusion that Jenna's behaviour in going to the bathroom is a deliberate delaying tactic to exact revenge on her mother. The bits of the case study where the author talks about discussing things with Jenna seem to me to be a potential example of leading questioning and suggestion - at whose suggestion did they 'talk about the disruption of the family...and...how much time was being devoted to Robert'? I wouldn't mind betting that it wasn't Jenna who started that discussion. Subsequently, despite the fact that Jenna denies being angry, they continue to assume that her behaviour is passive-aggressive and that they are 'right'. In my experience, if an Aspie says they need to go to the bathroom, then what they really mean is that they need to go to the bathroom! Two things to bear in mind here: one is that Aspies tend to be (sometimes brutally) honest and literal - we call a spade a spade - and the other is that we have a lot of nervous energy inside us. Ever needed the bathroom more often before you give a presentation or before you leave to go on holiday? Well, that feeling affects me (and I suspect poor Jenna) all the time, especially if we're about to go somewhere we perceive as being stressful, or more stressful than usual.

To give another example, on page 130 of the book, when talking about sensory issues, the author gives the following suggestion: 'If, for example, your skin is extremely sensitive to certain textures, such as wool, look for clothing that is made from some other kind of textile, such as cotton.' I'm afraid that I find this a gross insult to our intelligence. Many Aspies are highly intelligent, degree-educated people; to suggest that we are incapable of working out such a straightforward solution for ourselves is to treat us like idiots - we are not!

I also take exception to the section on page 174 about recovery from emotional outbursts, which suggests that Aspies recover much more quickly than NTs. In my experience this depends entirely on what caused the outburst. If it was caused by an inanimate object (such as a misbehaving/slow computer) then yes, we can recover fairly quickly, but if the outburst was caused by a person upsetting us, then I can assure you that an Aspie will still be re-living that incident (vividly and to the letter) in their head for years afterwards - in fact, the chances are, he/she will never forget or completely recover. Just because our voice level returns to normal and we perhaps change the subject does not mean that we are 'over it'. More often than not, if we have changed the subject it is an attempt to reduce our overwhelming stress levels.

That said, there are some valid insights here. I particularly like the section on pages 182/3 about AS and compassion (which resonates very strongly), and the parts about feeling overwhelmed/continually anxious/depressed are, sadly, all too familiar. I think the important thing to remember, especially for NTs trying to understand a loved one with the syndrome, is that some of the symptoms described will apply to your loved one and some will definitely not. Do not assume that they have everything in this book - if they are at the high-functioning end of the spectrum and have reached a stage where they can talk about their issues, ask them what is relevant to them and what is not. The only person who can tell you specifically and correctly about what is going on in your Aspie's mind is not a clinician, a doctor or a psychiatrist, but your Aspie!
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