- Paperback: 240 pages
- Publisher: Ballantine Books; Reprint edition (Jun 1989)
- Language English
- ISBN-10: 0345358473
- ISBN-13: 978-0345358479
- Product Dimensions: 20.6 x 13.2 x 1.8 cm
- Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
- Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 195,906 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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A provocative and highly articulate meditation on solitude, Anthony Storr explores the connection between solitude and the creative personality. From the great to the obscure, Storr examines the uses that all kinds of people make of solitude in times of bereavement and depression, in escaping from the pressures of daily life, in communing with a higher power through prayer, and in finding and expressing their deepest selves.
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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover
When I read the synopsis I thought it didn't capture the book at all - until I realised there should be a comma after creativity!!
This book is an excellent look at some of the creative geniuses of our time, and how solitude enabled them to create and can be healthy. Too many sources say enjoying being alone is odd so this book is both a comfort and amunition against critcs!!
It goes much, much deeper than that, and at times reads more like a text book, but if you are happy alone &/or are curious about understanding artistic people then this book is essential reading. (and the religious aspects are small)
This book is an excellent look at some of the creative geniuses of our time, and how solitude enabled them to create and can be healthy. Too many sources say enjoying being alone is odd so this book is both a comfort and amunition against critcs!!
It goes much, much deeper than that, and at times reads more like a text book, but if you are happy alone &/or are curious about understanding artistic people then this book is essential reading. (and the religious aspects are small)
3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
This book is not new. But the topic of solitude is probably more apt for discussion now than when it was written. Given our 24/7 living and the constant stimuli we all face then time out on our own gets little attention. These days most of us are in contact with others either electronically, socially or more intimately on a day to day basis. There is an emphasis on doing rather than being. Basically, Anthony Storr challenges the notion that relatedness is the best measure of human maturity and happiness. He explores solitude whether enforced or chosen and finds value in it. It's an accessible read and a comfort for those who enjoy being on their own in a world which seem to be insisting on togetherness!
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106 of 107 people found the following review helpful
Solitude is for the Sophisticated
8 Jan 2004
Format:Paperback
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QUESTION: what do these great achievers have in common: Isaac Newton (physicist), Fredrick Nietzche (philosopher), Rene Descarte (philosopher), Immanuel Kant (philosopher), and Blaise Pascal (mathematician and physicist)? ANSWER: they all made immense contributions to society. None of them married and most of them lived alone. All of them craved solitude.
This is the kind of interesting information you'll find in this book by noted psychiatrist Anthony Storr.
Storr peppers his book with useful observations and insights. Some of my favorites include the following:
1) "Many human beings make so with relationships which cannot be regarded as especially close, and not all such human beings are ill or particularly unhappy."
2) "With few exceptions, psychotherapists have omitted to consider the fact that the capacity to be alone is also an aspect of emotional maturity."
3) "Those who are not too dependent upon, or too closely involved with, others, find it easier to ignore convention [and thus do not fear being original]."
4) "If we do not look at marriage as the principal source of happiness, fewer marriages world end in tears."
5) "Some of the most profound and healing psychological experiences individuals encounter take place internally, and are distantly related, if at all, to interaction with other human beings."
6) "The capacity to be alone is a sign of inner security rather than an expression of a withdrawn state."
Storr investigates the uses of solitude for ordinary people. For example, "the capacity to be alone is a valuable resource when changes of mental attitude are required."
This book is at its zenith when it explores the connection between solitude and creative personality. (In fact, I felt at times this connection was too thoroughly explored.) Here, Storr gives mini-biographies of scientific and artistic geniuses, explaining how solitude may have been essential to their creative genius. The principles derived from studying these solitary achievers are used to aid ordinary people. For example, a useful principle is that "creative attitude and the ability to have peak experiences depends upon being free of other people; free, especially, from neurotic involvements, from 'historical hangovers from childhood,' but also free of obligations, duties, fears, and hopes."
Finally, throughout this book, Storr uses the insights of other psychlogists (for example, Carl Jung) to develop principles. Also, various themes run throughout this book. For example, "Man's adaption to the world is the result, paradoxically, of not being perfectly adjusted to the environment, of not being in a state of psychological equillibrium."
In conclusion, this is a book that discusses a neglected human need: solitude or the need to be alone. In order to understand this need, this book is essential reading!!
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QUESTION: what do these great achievers have in common: Isaac Newton (physicist), Fredrick Nietzche (philosopher), Rene Descarte (philosopher), Immanuel Kant (philosopher), and Blaise Pascal (mathematician and physicist)? ANSWER: they all made immense contributions to society. None of them married and most of them lived alone. All of them craved solitude.
This is the kind of interesting information you'll find in this book by noted psychiatrist Anthony Storr.
Storr peppers his book with useful observations and insights. Some of my favorites include the following:
1) "Many human beings make so with relationships which cannot be regarded as especially close, and not all such human beings are ill or particularly unhappy."
2) "With few exceptions, psychotherapists have omitted to consider the fact that the capacity to be alone is also an aspect of emotional maturity."
3) "Those who are not too dependent upon, or too closely involved with, others, find it easier to ignore convention [and thus do not fear being original]."
4) "If we do not look at marriage as the principal source of happiness, fewer marriages world end in tears."
5) "Some of the most profound and healing psychological experiences individuals encounter take place internally, and are distantly related, if at all, to interaction with other human beings."
6) "The capacity to be alone is a sign of inner security rather than an expression of a withdrawn state."
Storr investigates the uses of solitude for ordinary people. For example, "the capacity to be alone is a valuable resource when changes of mental attitude are required."
This book is at its zenith when it explores the connection between solitude and creative personality. (In fact, I felt at times this connection was too thoroughly explored.) Here, Storr gives mini-biographies of scientific and artistic geniuses, explaining how solitude may have been essential to their creative genius. The principles derived from studying these solitary achievers are used to aid ordinary people. For example, a useful principle is that "creative attitude and the ability to have peak experiences depends upon being free of other people; free, especially, from neurotic involvements, from 'historical hangovers from childhood,' but also free of obligations, duties, fears, and hopes."
Finally, throughout this book, Storr uses the insights of other psychlogists (for example, Carl Jung) to develop principles. Also, various themes run throughout this book. For example, "Man's adaption to the world is the result, paradoxically, of not being perfectly adjusted to the environment, of not being in a state of psychological equillibrium."
In conclusion, this is a book that discusses a neglected human need: solitude or the need to be alone. In order to understand this need, this book is essential reading!!
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70 of 70 people found the following review helpful
This book will change your life
5 Mar 2007
Format:Paperback
I have always been a solitary man, someone who likes to be alone, reading and writing, and who prefers solitude becasue I thrive in it. I've never had a ton of friends, and still don't, though I always had a few close ones. Some people say there is "something wrong" with me and that I need to get out more and be more social. Thing is, I don't find that satisfying. I find more satisfaction in solitude, reading and thinking and writing, than I do in "working the crowd." So prevalent were the voices of such critics that I often wondered if they were right; I also began to hate myself.
Mr. Storr's book, I'm glad to say, changed all that. Contrary to popular opinion, Mr. Storr says it's a sign of health if one can be alone for long periods of time; he also suggests that a person is deficient if he can't handle being alone and instead has to fill his life with friends, parties, lots of distractions, and the like.
The fact is, many great writers, philosophers, poets, musicians and artists were very solitary people with few or almost no deep, intimate personal relationships. The humanities would not be what they are had it not been for those solitary men and women who were alone a lot, people who were able to search deep into themselves and listen to what their souls were saying--in solitude. Large sections of Amazon.com, the college library, the fine art museum and symphony hall would not exist had it not been for the men and women in this book.
I can't recommend Mr. Storr's book enough. If you enjoy a solitary life and doubt that you are "normal" or "sane," or if people are always on your back about spending time alone or about how you don't have a lot of intimate friendships, you have nothing to fear: it's perfectly normal to want to be alone, especially if your gifts and talents demand that you be alone.
All in all, Solitude: A Return to the Self was a major discovery and I'm looking forward to reading it again. This book was a rare find. I can't remember a book having this much of an impact on me. If only Mr. Storr were alive so I could thank him for this fine book. Very highly recommended.
Mr. Storr's book, I'm glad to say, changed all that. Contrary to popular opinion, Mr. Storr says it's a sign of health if one can be alone for long periods of time; he also suggests that a person is deficient if he can't handle being alone and instead has to fill his life with friends, parties, lots of distractions, and the like.
The fact is, many great writers, philosophers, poets, musicians and artists were very solitary people with few or almost no deep, intimate personal relationships. The humanities would not be what they are had it not been for those solitary men and women who were alone a lot, people who were able to search deep into themselves and listen to what their souls were saying--in solitude. Large sections of Amazon.com, the college library, the fine art museum and symphony hall would not exist had it not been for the men and women in this book.
I can't recommend Mr. Storr's book enough. If you enjoy a solitary life and doubt that you are "normal" or "sane," or if people are always on your back about spending time alone or about how you don't have a lot of intimate friendships, you have nothing to fear: it's perfectly normal to want to be alone, especially if your gifts and talents demand that you be alone.
All in all, Solitude: A Return to the Self was a major discovery and I'm looking forward to reading it again. This book was a rare find. I can't remember a book having this much of an impact on me. If only Mr. Storr were alive so I could thank him for this fine book. Very highly recommended.
60 of 62 people found the following review helpful
I'm not the only one?
19 Mar 2004
Format:Paperback
I am often called upon to defend my decision my decision to lead a relatively non-social life. Good manners prevent me from answering that I generally have more fun by myself than at parties or dinner out or weekend trips to the country. How relieved was I then to find this book!
Anthony Storr's Solitude renders eloquent arguments that a craving for solitude is not a pathology, but instead, for some people, is lifestyle. He pulls examples from history, limning a clear pattern from the lives of Kafka, Trollope, Wittgenstein, Henry James and others. Those interested in literary lives will certainly find new material in these profiles.
It is true that the book explores the role of solitude in the lives of creative people: "It may be the case that, the less a person feels himself to be embedded in a family and social nexus, the more he feels that he has to make his mark in individual fashion." Any artist, undiscovered or famous, will find solace in these pages. However, anyone who finds herself quite happily content living life solo will also find good company in these pages.
Ultimately, Storr concludes that the creative geniuses who lived lives of solitude have pushed up the bar of achievement for humankind. Most of us would agree after contemplating a world unenriched by Newton, Beethoven and Beatrix Potter (author of Peter Rabbit!).
Storr's book also offers a condensed and imminently readable history of psychoanalysis, with Freud and Jung as the main characters. Storr, to my mind, shows the initial insights into motivation that Freud had, insights that can still hold water today. Storr is also quick to point out how that history of psychoanalysis lead to today's misguided (and frankly, offensive) maxim that if one is not in a relationship, one needs to be in therapy to deal with the issues about why not. No thanks, I'd rather be by myself.
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