I so much enjoyed this well written, moving and thoughtprovoking book.With the aim of trying to give meaning as to why her mother put her own happiness before her daughter`s , Daisy takes us on a literal and emotional journey from England to Ireland and Argentina ranging over over family history , the history of the English in Argentina and Ireland, the psycho-geography of the life of the uncommitted emigrants in the flat endless pampas and the long term effects of emotional starvation on children. The fact that in contrast to many of her forbears she has ended up such an apparently well balanced , caring, creative person is great achievement .