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- Listening Length: 4 hours and 38 minutes
- Program Type: Audiobook
- Version: Unabridged
- Publisher: HarperAudio
- Audible.co.uk Release Date: 4 Feb. 2005
- Language: English
- ASIN: B002SQ7MDM
She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Audio Download – Unabridged
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So I went to Hoxton's women only sex shop Sh! & asked what they recommended to help my boyfrienf find his inner passion for cunnilingus, so we could enjoy it together. The shop assistant recommended this book, together with some flavoured lubricant (she said could this help him to overcome any initial reticence to get stuck in - the flavour wears off of course, leaving the man basking in the woman's natural scent & taste, by which time hopefully he'll enjoy it).
I read the book first, to see what information my boyfriend would be primed with and ... well, it's not perfect.
For a start, the diagrams are a little hard to understand: they would be infinitely better in colour, & should also show the woman's genitalia both before & during arousal, & should compare them with male genialia, so that readers really get it into our heads that male & female genitalia are very similar, just positioned differently, & that women have erections too!
I think it is this anatomical knowledge that will help guys understand why they need to do certain things: women need exactly the same stimulation as men, maybe more, but our bits are arranged differently, which is why penetration alone will not work for many of us.
Anyhow, after squinting at the diagrams, I figure they are a pretty good start at least in giving guys a rough idea of where to aim for, & why (but can you name the missing erogenous zone ...?).
However, I also felt the text was a bit dense in places: it might put some guys off that it's so detailed.Read more ›
My partner brought the book last year, completly of his own accord. I had never complained about his cunnilingal skills, but he obviously felt he could improve, and my oh my he did! I thought I had climaxed through oral stimulation before but after he practised the moves learnt from this book he gave me the most mind blowing and earth shattering O's I have ever had. The confidence this has now given him knowing he has the power to turn me into quivering, heavenly mush is such a turn on for both of us and has improved our sexual relationship tenfold. I have not read the book but it is a must for any unselfish men who understand that women need a little more attention in that department and would like to see the look of complete sexual satisfaction on their partners face - also for any women who feel their partner needs a little help in this department, this is a must buy. No better Christmas present!!
There is one warning tho, to the girls - your partner learning these skills may turn you into an obsessed nymphomaniac, as you will never get enough!!!
She comes first..... And He comes a very happy second :)
Since then I never miss an opportunity to please her with my tongue and fingers, I've lent the book to nearly all my male friends and got quite a lot of thanks of their partners a few weeks later. I would recommend this book to anyone who classes pleasing their partner higher than their own selfish desires.
The second half of the book focuses on the dramatic arc of female arousal, and though I recognised some aspects from my own experience, it was good in highlighting aspects I tend to forget in the heat of the moment - which is already proving beneficial...
Very highly recommended, both for those starting out, and for those who want another perspective on ingrained habits.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Essential reading for anyone who has ever had, or touched, a vagina. Seriously. Why are men so rubbish at sex? Read morePublished 3 months ago by Vicky
This is good to read on your commute to work, didn't learn much but is a good read for the thinking manPublished 6 months ago by Mark8478
Trust me every man should read this if you want to ensure your lady is happy. It contained a lot of information I already knew from trial and error in past relationships but where... Read morePublished 7 months ago by WhiteStar