"Sex, Party and Lies" in not merely a movie about disenfranchised youth, drugs and our sex culture. It is a profound commentary on our very existence, which as the movie title suggests revolves moments of sex, parties and ultimately lies.
The sex is not only about an act, but rather a transaction between person, through which we find solace, connection and selfish satisfaction. Ironically it can also be used a commodity upon which human emotions are traded, and through which lustful desires are temporarily sated. Often replaced by a contrite regret and an inability to stop the cycle from repeating, sex also reveals the truth of who and what we are. The act titillates the senses, and taunts the soul through casual moments of intimacy, and your vulnerability cannot help but bleed through the surface. All that you have learnt, cautions you to not allow such vulnerability, and yet one person, one desire can change that in an instant. In truth you can never deny yourself, no matter how hard you try.
Through our parties we allow ourselves an escape, a profound moment where we are part of a crowd that pulsates, breathes and experiences as one. Indeed the final rave scene, where Tony (Mario Casas) hands out ecstasy pills to a willing congregation of souls, is indeed iconic. It is a final communion, where the brevity of life is laid bare, and it is provokative revealing in its perversity. Have we indeed failed as a race of beings, and are we that temporary, that we fixate on the here and now as opposed to the promise of a better future.
Why do we perpetuate the lie that we cannot be true to ourselves? Why do we listen to the lie, that we cannot love another merely because of gender? Why is the great societal lie, so pervasive, so strong and so all consuming, that it mirrors our failures and forces us to act contrary to nature. The ultimate irony is that inherently we know this to be true, yet we live that lie over and over again.
Sex, Party and Lies" is not a movie to watch for casual titillation, it is far more resonating than that. It demands the audience look beyond the veneer, into the mirror and to see themselves. Horribly underrated, and far more interesting social commentary, than many movies that have tried to express the same. My only criticism was that the movie takes far too long to establish the characters and setting, and as such you want much more of the final moments.