The dearly departed Fr. Anthony De Mello S.J. left a legacy for the Church, lay people, secular humanists, even atheists--his work is that all encompassing in scope taking in as it does pretty much every facet of the human condition--that I doubt he himself would be he either happy or sad if he were around to see the huge reaction today. As he vigorously notes in his equally titanic work Awareness: The Perils and Opportunities of Reality: "Approval is the drug which we have been injected with from our birth. We allow others to give it and take it, and the moment it is withdrawn, we collapse. If we want to be happy with ourselves we must die to others and withdraw from the drug of approval." Father De Mello would be happy that some were pleased with his revolutionizing of Catholic theology and relatively indifferent and compassionate towards those who so vigorously objected to it (like our current Pope.)
In "Seek God Everywhere", De Mello seeks to humanize the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius (and for the majority of Catholics/non-Catholics/non believers--all can benefit)they would need to be made a bit more modern. The desolations and consolations that Ignatius stressed so strongly as being very crucial for an individual's ability to put on the new man in Christ (Ephesians 4:17-24) is explored here in voluminous depth. De Mello recounts tales of retreatants who believe they are happy but in reality simply have not been "aware" enough (none of us are until we go full throttle in our spiritual quest) introspection and prayer to realize that they are not.
Noting on page 28: "The consciousness of sin, much like on the psychological level the awareness of one's blocks and, in some cases, of one's neurosis, is of great value. So too on the spiritual level: the awareness of one's selfishness, blocks, fears, and unproductiveness is of tremendous value, because it brings with it the exhilaration of accepting God's love, the challenge for change, and all that comes with it. Hence it is important to keep both polarities. And it is very important to communicate this to the retreatant."
What De Mello stresses here is that we are so often seeking the approval of others when we make claim with the left hand to wanting nothing but God. This is the direction he wants to push us in, frequently admitting he is in the company of the lazy spiritual seeker: to want nothing but God, and then to watch everything unfold. With each commentary on the exercises he gives us brief episodes from the lives of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Harvey Cox, St. Francis, and innumerable other heroes of faith. No less a man than Father John Dear S.J. A Persistent Peace: One Man's Struggle for a Nonviolent World called the book "the greatest treatise ever written on the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius and Jesuit Spirituality."
De Mello was known for his no nonsense style but is never cold, possessing that firm compassion of the saints. I would recommend this book not only to those who are attending an Ignatian retreat, but to anyone--believer, non believer, anyone at all. It is the real deal.