Buy the book! Go on! DO it. Don't miss the particularly helpful passage about pornography, where Mrs Lloyd-Platt compares a man's use of it akin to 'looking at a new sports car'. It saved my butt from a kicking I can tell you!
She also points out that oral sex can be part of a happy, loving relationship though. Any book coming up with THAT as advice can't be all bad. In fact, that's all a relationship book needs to say: 'oral sex can be part of a happy, loving relationship. The end.' Seeing as how Mrs Lloyd-Platt is 1) a woman, and 2) a divorce lawyer, it MUST be true.
I am writing this some weeks after buying this book, highlighting the appropriate paragraphs, and handing it to my wife. Do you know what? It works! There we were on our last legs relationship-wise, and thanks to Vanessa Lloyd-Platt - the magic is back! Thanks VLP!