There is something odd about
the Bible. Every time God addresses Men in the Bible, he does it twice (e.g. Ex 3:2: "Moses, Moses" & Acts 9:4: "Saul, Saul").
Why is this? Simple answer: Men always need to be told everything twice!
And God has it easy - Women trying to tell Men about how to be good in bed, what they should read/ view & how they really aren't the Lothario they think they are? It falls on deaf ears. The World's most powerful Evangelists in their prime (including Dawkins), 50 Martin Luther-Kings (with megaphones & loud speakers) AND a fleet of airplanes (that could write it across all the skies of the World) couldn't get the message across.
Why are they so stubborn? Because (in the words of Jay Leno on
Top Gear) "Sex is like driving a car; all men think they're good at it!"
Reading this book, I fell into this trap myself - my ego kept saying what a stud I was & how I didn't need ANY of this material. Had I been in a relationship at the time, it would have been even worse as the 'Just Be Yourself' routine would have stopped me learning anything at all. I also suggested this book to male friends & they were incredulous as to why I was even bothering to read it.
However, I'm so glad I continued reading & read all the emails of Women saying 'Help me to Help him!' & how they'd surely cheat if their Man didn't start listening & correct their behaviour. It really is an amazing revelation to see, with open eyes, one of the greatest causes of domestic strife in modern times (& probably a few World Wars!).
The sad & sorry truth is: Most Men are terrible in bed & (even worse) are unwilling to learn how to rectify it or even see it as a problem.
Women frequently buy this book (& 'How to Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms') for their partners, read it themselves & then beseech their partners to do so. Few Men do & most have such fragile egos that they ignore the message. If only they had the humility to learn, they would find that the truth really does set you free; knowing how to make a Woman happy in bed is *crucial* to every relationship & knowing what an exquisite thing the feminine is, is to be a complete human being.
Imagine if everyone knew the techniques in this book. There's be fewer divorces. There'd be no Bad Boys 'sharking' around other people's marriages looking for homes to ruin. And the whole World would feel more happy, more complete & more fulfilled.
All this said, there are weaknesses to this book. The first (& most obvious) is that much of this book consists of lots of emails from Women one-after-another-after-another, with little or no input from the author. It's almost like Mr Shade has employed 'Polly Filler' from
Private Eye to fill out the book to over 250 pages!
Furthermore, I noticed that Mr Shade uses a lot of his material from here in his newsletter & vice versa. This is mostly forgivable, but it can be a little annoying when you expect a brand new newsletter & find old material from this book. It's almost a disincentive for buying it.
That said, NO disincentive should dissuade people from buying this book. There is still an epic crisis out there & one of the few places you will find a remedy is within the pages of this book. Hopefully, one day all people will see this & Men will show themselves as the leaders they are born to be & fulfil their purpose in life.
So, to conclude, if you're a Woman, then please buy this for your Man (even if he is actually good in bed). I personally have even had female colleagues asking me for a copy & wanting to see mine, so you're not alone. Oh, and if you want to persuade your man, show them this review! ;)
If you're male, then I encourage you to buy this & discover what it really is to be a Man.
As for me? I'm buying a copy to put in my local pub...