This is a great read, well written and more than occasionally provocative. Kindlon and Thompson take a risk and open the lid on what it's like to be a boy and become a man. Provocative in that the authors endeavour to clarify what is different about being a boy and challenges us as parents and teachers to understand their internal experience.
The book explores why it is that things can go so desperately wrong with boys and identifies the most important features for them in growing up - teachers and schools, mothers and fathers and the inevitable peer group relationships. Perhaps most importantly the authors offer ways to relating to boys and young ment that build trust, respect and crucially, protects their emotional well-being.
As a father of two young sons and someone who works professionally in the field of exclusion and disaffection I felt this book articulated some of the most crucial issues facing communities at the brink of a new era; how we might best engage with our boys so that they can best become men for the new millennium.