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16-year-old Paul Landon's world collapses when his brother is killed in action in Vietnam. Chris had recently confessed to Paul that he was gay and begged him not to tell their parents. Paul sinks into delinquency as his parents mourn and praise their dead son and make Paul feel as though he does nothing right. Forced to spend the summer working in the family-owned pet shop, Paul must train the new kid, JJ O'Neil. JJ surprises Paul in two ways: he effortlessly calms and trains aggressive dogs; and he's gay. Through JJ, Paul soon begins to become the man he wants to be.
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful
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Of Robin Reardon's three novels so far, I think this is the best of a high-class output. In the character of the narrator, sixteen-year old Paul, Reardonn has created a credible, complex, appealing central figure. The story focuses on the death of Paul's older brother, Chris, in Vietnam and on the fallout from Chris's confession to his younger brother, on his last home leave, that he is gay. The depiction of bereavement, grief and guilt following Chris's death, and its effect on the relationships between Paul and his family, are tear-jerkingly moving. Paul himself has to grapple with an achingly difficult relationship with his father, whose causes only become clear in the final pages of the book, and with his own homophobia. How can the brother he hero worshipped have been a fag?
The other, related, theme of the book is Paul's reluctant acceptance that the gay colleague he works with in his father's pet store fits none of Paul's stereotypical prejudices. Indeed, as JJ teaches Paul how to handle dangerous dogs (a fascinating bit of the plot) so of course it is Paul who is also being changed and 'tamed'. There are not many books that make the tears well up. This is one of them and, for me, one of the best novels of 2010.
The other, related, theme of the book is Paul's reluctant acceptance that the gay colleague he works with in his father's pet store fits none of Paul's stereotypical prejudices. Indeed, as JJ teaches Paul how to handle dangerous dogs (a fascinating bit of the plot) so of course it is Paul who is also being changed and 'tamed'. There are not many books that make the tears well up. This is one of them and, for me, one of the best novels of 2010.
2 of 4 people found the following review helpful
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Set over the course of 1972-1973, against the backdrop of the US invasion of Vietnam, A QUESTION OF MANHOOD is a fairly standard coming-of-age novel within the genre, with the difference that the main character, sixteen-year-old Paul, does not identify as gay, but is instead confronted with others who do so.
Paul lives with his parents - an authoritarian, right-wing, war-loving father, and an ineffectual housewife mother. At the outset of the novel, Paul's older brother, Chris, is at home on leave from the Vietnam incursion. Chris appears to embody everything that Paul is not - 'manly', respected by his parents, a hero. However, on the night before his return to Vietnam, Chris confides in Paul that he identifies as homosexual; shortly thereafter, he dies overseas.
Distraught, resentful of Chris for burdening him with this secret, angry at himself for reacting badly to the news, Paul tries to make sense of his father's continual admonitions to 'be a man'. This confusion of values is further complicated in Paul's mind by the arrival of a new employee at his father's store, J.J., a college student. His father worships J.J. and holds him up as an example to Paul - not realising, as Paul does, that JJ identifies as gay.
A QUESTION OF MANHOOD is a generally fluid novel, although the author does drop the pace rather too frequently. By positioning the narrator as straight-identifying, the novel aims to manipulate broader themes of conflict - primarily Paul's attempts to navigate the pressured expectations that he encounters from familial and other relationships, towards becoming 'his own person'.
The novel does tend to feel rather like an episode of 'The Wonder Years', with the same drawback that the 'lessons learned' are somewhat contrived and predictable. The other major flaw is the author's conflation of 'love' and 'protection' in attempting to redeem Paul's father's authoritarianism. As always when this notion is invoked (and most particularly in the context of young people), "protection" has nothing to do with 'love' and everything to do with control.
Overall, A QUESTION OF MANHOOD is a highly readable, if not overly memorable, novel. Readers looking for something similar are certainly not short of options and would be advised to consider instead books such as The Tragedy of Miss Geneva Flowers, Leave Myself Behind or The Boys and the Bees.
Paul lives with his parents - an authoritarian, right-wing, war-loving father, and an ineffectual housewife mother. At the outset of the novel, Paul's older brother, Chris, is at home on leave from the Vietnam incursion. Chris appears to embody everything that Paul is not - 'manly', respected by his parents, a hero. However, on the night before his return to Vietnam, Chris confides in Paul that he identifies as homosexual; shortly thereafter, he dies overseas.
Distraught, resentful of Chris for burdening him with this secret, angry at himself for reacting badly to the news, Paul tries to make sense of his father's continual admonitions to 'be a man'. This confusion of values is further complicated in Paul's mind by the arrival of a new employee at his father's store, J.J., a college student. His father worships J.J. and holds him up as an example to Paul - not realising, as Paul does, that JJ identifies as gay.
A QUESTION OF MANHOOD is a generally fluid novel, although the author does drop the pace rather too frequently. By positioning the narrator as straight-identifying, the novel aims to manipulate broader themes of conflict - primarily Paul's attempts to navigate the pressured expectations that he encounters from familial and other relationships, towards becoming 'his own person'.
The novel does tend to feel rather like an episode of 'The Wonder Years', with the same drawback that the 'lessons learned' are somewhat contrived and predictable. The other major flaw is the author's conflation of 'love' and 'protection' in attempting to redeem Paul's father's authoritarianism. As always when this notion is invoked (and most particularly in the context of young people), "protection" has nothing to do with 'love' and everything to do with control.
Overall, A QUESTION OF MANHOOD is a highly readable, if not overly memorable, novel. Readers looking for something similar are certainly not short of options and would be advised to consider instead books such as The Tragedy of Miss Geneva Flowers, Leave Myself Behind or The Boys and the Bees.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
Common Question, Uncommon Answer: A Question of Manhood
12 Oct 2010
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In Ms. Reardon's two other gay YA novels, A Secret Edge and Thinking Straight the protagonist is a gay youth, one closeted with a supportive aunt and exotic friend, the other out but with non-supportive Christian parents. In her third novel, as in Christopher Rice's fourth novel Blind Fall: A Novel, the protagonist is not gay. In Blind Fall the gay person is the protagonist's best friend, an ex-Marine. In A Question of Manhood it is the youth's brother, a soldier home on a brief and final leave from Viet Nam in 1972 (the period in which the novel is set), who leaves him, and only him, with his secret, and with a million questions his brother will never be able to answer. His father wants him to "be a man." But how? What does that really mean?
This is a truly great book with interesting characters. Few gay YA novels would have the boy describing his liking sex with a prostitute in a pink vest, a father with a gimpy leg and a pet supply store rather than a pet store because mom is allergic to dogs and cats, and an out, gay dog whisperer who goes by "JJ" because, well, read the book to find out! You will learn as much about dogs as you do about people, and you learn a LOT about people. Ms. Reardon has done her homework in researching this book, and you will marvel at her detail.
You might even shed a tear in the final pages, as I did. Her next book is due in six months. I can hardly wait!
This is a truly great book with interesting characters. Few gay YA novels would have the boy describing his liking sex with a prostitute in a pink vest, a father with a gimpy leg and a pet supply store rather than a pet store because mom is allergic to dogs and cats, and an out, gay dog whisperer who goes by "JJ" because, well, read the book to find out! You will learn as much about dogs as you do about people, and you learn a LOT about people. Ms. Reardon has done her homework in researching this book, and you will marvel at her detail.
You might even shed a tear in the final pages, as I did. Her next book is due in six months. I can hardly wait!
4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
A Question of Manhood by Robin Reardon
7 Oct 2010
Format:Paperback
This is the third book by Robin Reardon about being young and gay, and fighting to have a normal life, the third she wrote and the third I read without hesitation. Even if about young men with problem bigger than them, even if it will be difficult, and hard, for them to be happy, these struggling teenagers are stronger than what it seems, and I know that, at the end of their story, there will be a chance for happiness.
This last book is a bit different though; Paul, the protagonist, is not gay. He is the second son in a family where Chris, the oldest, is the perfect one. There is the war in Vietnam, and Chris, as expected from him, is over there, fighting for his country. Paul is too young, but nevertheless, he would be not as good as Chris, even if he enlisted. Paul has always heard as Chris was his parents favorite son, as he, Paul, was almost an unnecessary addition to their family. But even if Paul would have been all the reason to hate Chris, Chris was really Paul's hero: he was always ready to show to Paul the right path, to give him the right advice, to help him when he was in trouble. And now that Chris is at home, during a leave, Chris tells Paul his biggest secret: he is gay and terrified. Moreover his lover, another soldier, died in Vietnam, and Chris seems to no more have a reason to fight and come back home. Chris is going to die, and he is doing it willingly. For the first time Paul doesn't see him as an hero: Chris is gay and can't be an hero, and plus he is a coward, he chose his dead lover over Paul, he will not fight for Paul as he fought for Mason, he will die in Vietnam.
Maybe if Chris returned back home, Paul would have had the chance to change his mind, but unfortunaly Chris indeed dies in Vietnam. Now Paul has all this rage inside him, rage against the world, his family, and Chris. When a new guy comes to help on his dad's pet shop, he seems the replica of Chris: perfect, kind, too wise for his age and gay. Paul dislikes him like he diskliked Chris, and at the same time he wants to love him like he loved his brother. With JJ, Paul will have a second chance with Chris, a chance to understand him, not to "accept" him, there is nothing to accept, being gay is not a fault, but Paul will learn that he can love JJ, and he could have fully loved Chris, without for this reason being gay as well, or having to change his mind. Paul will learn that love is unconditionally.
It's the second time that the family of the gay guy is not part of who is rejecting the guy. JJ has a loving mother, that, even if he jokes about the fact of being the fourth male son, and so he has no need to provide her with grandsons, in any case she loves him as above, unconditionally. JJ has had the chance to grow up being loved and accepted, and this is giving him the strength to face the outside world with courage and full front. JJ is not ashamed of being gay, even if the times he is living are not allowing him to be "out and proud". But I see the embryo of a well-balanced and happy man in him, someone that will be able to fully enjoy his life. Even if Paul is a good character, and I liked to read his story, JJ is another character that I wouldn't mind to meet again, maybe to see if his promises will be mantained.
This last book is a bit different though; Paul, the protagonist, is not gay. He is the second son in a family where Chris, the oldest, is the perfect one. There is the war in Vietnam, and Chris, as expected from him, is over there, fighting for his country. Paul is too young, but nevertheless, he would be not as good as Chris, even if he enlisted. Paul has always heard as Chris was his parents favorite son, as he, Paul, was almost an unnecessary addition to their family. But even if Paul would have been all the reason to hate Chris, Chris was really Paul's hero: he was always ready to show to Paul the right path, to give him the right advice, to help him when he was in trouble. And now that Chris is at home, during a leave, Chris tells Paul his biggest secret: he is gay and terrified. Moreover his lover, another soldier, died in Vietnam, and Chris seems to no more have a reason to fight and come back home. Chris is going to die, and he is doing it willingly. For the first time Paul doesn't see him as an hero: Chris is gay and can't be an hero, and plus he is a coward, he chose his dead lover over Paul, he will not fight for Paul as he fought for Mason, he will die in Vietnam.
Maybe if Chris returned back home, Paul would have had the chance to change his mind, but unfortunaly Chris indeed dies in Vietnam. Now Paul has all this rage inside him, rage against the world, his family, and Chris. When a new guy comes to help on his dad's pet shop, he seems the replica of Chris: perfect, kind, too wise for his age and gay. Paul dislikes him like he diskliked Chris, and at the same time he wants to love him like he loved his brother. With JJ, Paul will have a second chance with Chris, a chance to understand him, not to "accept" him, there is nothing to accept, being gay is not a fault, but Paul will learn that he can love JJ, and he could have fully loved Chris, without for this reason being gay as well, or having to change his mind. Paul will learn that love is unconditionally.
It's the second time that the family of the gay guy is not part of who is rejecting the guy. JJ has a loving mother, that, even if he jokes about the fact of being the fourth male son, and so he has no need to provide her with grandsons, in any case she loves him as above, unconditionally. JJ has had the chance to grow up being loved and accepted, and this is giving him the strength to face the outside world with courage and full front. JJ is not ashamed of being gay, even if the times he is living are not allowing him to be "out and proud". But I see the embryo of a well-balanced and happy man in him, someone that will be able to fully enjoy his life. Even if Paul is a good character, and I liked to read his story, JJ is another character that I wouldn't mind to meet again, maybe to see if his promises will be mantained.
3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
Excellent book.
5 Oct 2010
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This is a great book. The author does a great job of writing about the social atmosphere during the 1970s and a great job of describing what it's like being a teenager with a secret to keep. This is a book that was very hard to put down once I started. Another great Robin Reardon read!
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